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It should not take a head injury

*after personally sustaining a head injury & coma*

to figure this out...









A Satirical Blog

*(utilizing articles discussing facts)*

By:  Susan MeeLing

After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.



When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.


If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.


You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 


Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.


Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

There is a difference

My ex-sister-in-law who is not the one and only Executrix had contacted #KenPridgeon (if I am accurate) who once lived in #Carrollton #Texas, to complete a painting of my dead-ex-husband without my permission. Just as I told her as well as my other ex-in-laws of what not to do in reference to the funeral rights, there was many reasons why I had told my ex-sister-in-law not to send a picture for the painting of the picture sent; just as I told her to retract her request, which of course was not listened to nor adhered to. Though the original picture she sent was not painted because I guesstimate he recognized the stolen valor in the dress blues picture, the painting was still completed against my wishes and without ever speaking with me to do such.

I do apologize for taking so long to realize such, myself.

Whereas I do not choose one Medal of Honor recipient over another nor do I choose one state over another for my Medal of Honor Art Project, therein lies one difference. Another difference in the Medal of Honor recipient markers are in public locations, whereas the picture was sent without my permission. The intent is not to come across as mean, nor rude. If the year he moved from Carrollton Texas to the #Houston area of Texas happened to align with the timing of #HurricaneHarvey there was a sign whether one wants to believe or not, as such is more of a subconscious aspect in certain regards. Then again what I consider as a hurricane compared to what is on the rating scale is extremely different, comparatively.

I do hope to meet with one day, when he has the time. He is more than welcome to contact me, when the time is right for him.

While I appreciate the fact of the work completed by such, in regards of not giving permission to do so and it already having been done; that door cannot be closed by anyone, and since the aspects of technology additionally such cannot be closed at all as the presentation ceremony which I was not invited to cannot be undone. The fact both my son and my daughter were not in attendance also cannot be undone, nor can the news articles be unpublished. Though also my prior comments and warnings to my ex-sisters-in-law also cannot be undone as their actions, as well.

I do apologize my warnings were not listened to, though I did give multiple warnings.

Thus I wonder when it was realized, that such was completed without the only one who had the legal authority to make such a decision? Was it before 2010 when what occurred to my daughter at the #FortWorthZoo, or was it afterwards whether which was before or after the timing of the ceremony? If it was figured out before the timing of the ceremony then why was I not contacted, just as when if it was figured out after the timing of the ceremony why was I not contacted? I guesstimate such was figured out after I had landed at the bottom of the ocean next to the USS/USNS #Vandenberg in the #MatthiasAbyss and surfaced safely in 2009, nonetheless.

Though it does make sense as to the weather when I was in Houston and southern Texas areas picking up my Medal of Honor historical and spiritual rubbings, as to the bursts of rainfall in a torrential way. Hypothetically of course, for those who still wish to deny such realities in full aspects privately or publicly wrongly.

Then comes the questions in reference to 1st Amendment of the Freedoms of Expression, correct? However the portions of which Freedoms of Expression from what I understand, require the legal aspects of permission rights. Since I am the one who paid the price for the pictures sent both in reference to the dress blues pictures as well as the camouflage picture as I delivered the picture myself as my ex-in-laws did not get that picture until after 2001, then while I wonder as to why the credits I have earned over these years and I am due have not been; no I will not give a retroactive permission, because of what has occurred. Why? I realize such has to do with far more, than just this portion.

However my dead-ex-husband was not a Texan, is one reason. He was not born in Texas as well as nor was he re-raised in Texas, as another reason. He was born and raised mainly in #FortPolk #Louisiana before time in Alabama, and then later for middle school and high school was there time in Texas. Thus for those smaller points among many others, he was not in the slightest a Texan. He chose to cause harm to the state of Texas as well as the Armed Forces of the United States of America, and he went against everything the state of Texas and the United States of America stands for. The proof is out there, in multiple ways. He discredited the uniform of the United States of America, as well as he put those in the #TexasNationalGuard and those stationed overseas including those who would be sent if something had actually occurred in ways of the meat-tags needlessly at risk.

I am not writing as a bitter ex-wife as some might think, as my actions prove through my patterns of behaviour for my children.

The choices undertaken wrongly by my ex-sister-in-law who had no legal authority whatsoever to arrange such, also cannot be undone. During the timing of my daughter was not legally of age to make such decisions though also had to be at the time of when he died if I had not been alive though obviously I was and am alive, as my daughter's name is the one on the will not his mother's. Admittedly a choice I made, when I was asked by him since he could not put both of my children's names onto the paperwork. Thus if even such was brought up, that signature is considered legally invalid as my signature would be the only accepted one for the time. Since such was not granted, here is my public statement for such.

Just as the images cannot be undone, so too in reference to my statement and my stance of such.

While I appreciate his service to the United States of America both when active duty and as a veteran, in good conscious I cannot and will not retroactively allow such. Knowing the fact of the ability to have contacted me through multiple means and measures throughout the years to discuss such including when I too was living in Carrollton Texas for verification as well as the fact of the probability for the ease for him to be able to find my contact information for such, I do not fault him for the aspects of what my ex-sister-in-law chose to do. I fault her for lying to him, knowing she was taking advantage of the situation.

However they needs to publicly apologize to him as well as all #veterans, #activeduty, #nationalguard, #reservists, their #dependents/spouses/children/family and honorable family of the fallen who are #GoldStar family members of the #UnitedStatesofAmerica's #ArmedForces in my opinion; as well as knowing the fact that other one of my ex-sister-in-laws had perpetuated such along with her two daughters, should make a public apology. As they know how to contact local officials as well as contact news organizations since for one example is one pf my ex-sisters-in-law contacted the #SanAntonioExpressNews because she had to have her name in the paper just as she had to have the ceremony where she attended because of her need for publicity, such should be easy for them to be able to do. Also with the ability through technology, they are more than capable to make such public apologies.

I do not fault my ex-mother-in-law, as I doubt she realized at the time until after she was told years later. However I do blame such in reference to my ex-sisters-in-law for knowingly taking advantage of such, because of their need for fame in whatever ways they could hypothetically attain such.

However the sincere and respectful apology to Ken Pridgeon preferably in both a handwritten letter and if he allows face to face though still through a public means again, since technology is so capable for usage; is a demand, as he and others should not have had to endure such because of them and their problems. As out of the goodness of his heart working from compassion for what he survived and knowing of the portions of the lost aspects, he deserves such from them.

I personally apologize for thinking such warnings were good enough, though I also apologize for not realizing such was not strong enough of a warning.

Then a separate similar type of apologies completed respectfully in reference to those needlessly affected in regards of my Medal of Honor Art Project if hypothetically my ex-in-laws and/or their children and/or my biological sister/mother/father and/or etcetera, in regards of the situations which occurred. Such an apology should include the above as well as the #LawEnforcementAgencies, #FireDepartments especially because of what occurred in the states, #EmergencyMedicalServices, and those in charge of 9-1-1 phone calls; in my opinion of which also including the elected officials of each affected and impacted area as well as the religious and spiritual organizations who have run their churches and synagogues/temples to the best of their abilities, and the citizens thereof each city and state.

Time: 1:51a.m. CST

Date: 26 November 2020

The ultimate measure of an individual is not where they stand in moments of comfort and convenience, but where they stand at the time of challenge and controversy.

We must reject the idea that everytime a law is broken society is guity, rather than the law breaker. 

Freedom is never-more than one generation away, from exinction.  We do not pass freedom on through our blood stream because freedom must be fought for, protected, and handed on for the next generation to do the same.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

It should not take a head injury to figure this out, because you are smarter.

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