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It should not take a head injury

*after personally sustaining a head injury & coma*

to figure this out...









A Satirical Blog

*(utilizing articles discussing facts)*

By:  Susan MeeLing

After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.



When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.


If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.


You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 


Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.


Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

I am ready, are you?

However as excited as I am about the aspects of that I have been doing being taken care of, I do admit I am ready to date and begin the relationship which leads to the romantic love and marriage to my one.

I am wanting the romantic dating relationship stuff which leads to a real marriage full of love and adoration between my one, and I. I do prefer the spiritual marriage with the legal aspect as that is extremely important to me and though I am quite much of a tomboy, I am quite girly girly admittedly; despite my physical appearance as well as what I have done, throughout my life.

I do not play games, while I do understand some do; I am not one of those who enjoys such beyond when I had as a child and when I was playing the board games, with my son and daughter. I prefer meeting in person in comparison to only online, as I am unsure how people could date that way; though I am sure there are those who have.

While a particular political affiliation does not bother me, I also do not deny I voted for the current President of the United States of America Donald J. Trump as well as Vice President of the United States of America Mike Pence. If such offends you, please do not waste my time or bother me; as you will not convince me to vote for a different President of the United States of America unless #POTUS45 does something so atrocious in comparison to the other candidate for the Main Election, though I doubt such as much good as he and his administration have accomplished thus far. I am going to vote for the current POTUS and VPOTUS again as I already completed the early voting for the primary, and I will be completing my voting later on for the general election for who I voted for in the Primary Election early voting if they are on the ballot for the General Main Election for the 3 November 2020 date.

I am a Conservative Republican and I have voted for some Democrats, I have been a registered Republican since the first time I could vote in 2000. I voted for who became POTUS George W. Bush and VPOTUS Dick Cheney as I felt they were the ones who would be able to handle what I felt was coming and though I voted for Senator John McCain and Governor Sarah Palin to then vote for Senator Mitt Romney and Senator Paul Ryan, I did know then POTUS Barack Obama and VPOTUS Joe Biden were going to get those elections.

Though I have been told one cannot discuss politics, sex, or religion in a general public setting; I am a proponent for the First Amendment and the Constitutional Bill of Rights; and I have done so in as respectful of a manner as possible. However at the same time, I cannot remember a time where one of those three factors were not a part of any talk I had been a part of; then again the communities in which I had been involved in, usually had something to do with one of those three at minimum. For example in reference to my children, there is the political aspects. In reference to my spiritual path, there is the religion aspect. In reference to my involvement with the BDSM/LGBTQP/Swinger Lifestyles, there is the sexual aspect. Thus, I have been unable to see how there is not a connection for those references as so many areas of life involve such. While I do enjoy discussing the various topics within and of, there are other points of talking I enjoy as well. However if you are not one who enjoys such types of discussions and talking aspects, then I might not be the right person for you.

If you are one of those Democrats which cannot discuss and talk peacefully while having different opinions and beliefs, I will be as blunt as possible; there is no way anything could work out between you and I so please do not waste my time, as I am not interested in such behaviors. While I know there are plenty of Democrats who can have intelligent discussions and we can disagree in certain areas without such negative problems as I have seen, heard, and experienced; I know and comprehend not all Democrats are as such. I can state truthfully as I cannot tell a lie, I have had plenty of wonderful discussions with Democrats from different areas and though we did not agree on every single point of the discussion; we also did not have the situations which I have seen and heard others having, as the discussions were extremely civil and enlightening. If you do not support the military for the United States of America or if you do not support the law enforcement, fire department, and emergency medical services, please do not waste my time.

If you have children, understand I have had a son and a daughter; and I comprehend the need for safety. I do not expect to meet someone's child(ren) before the other is ready for such, nor would I pressure such. If you are like myself and your children are grown and/or out of the home area, there is obviously no need for such points to be discussed further. However if you do not have children and are looking to, I am not wanting to give birth to any more children. I have had the pregnancies I was willing to go through to birth my children, and I do not want to go through that again. Then again, I truly believe there is no male on earth who would want to be next to his wife for 7 days of labor per child. If that had only occurred for my son and not my daughter, I could have shrugged such off; but having occurred for both my son and my daughter's labor and delivery; that was something I was not willing to endure again thereafter. I doubt there are any females in the world, who could ever be genuinely jealous of that labor and delivery.

However despite what I have been through and the various life experiences I have survived, I think of myself to be of a more uplifting person who does what I can to see the positive and happier aspects in life. While I would like to have far more happier and positive experiences from this point forward, I also would like to be with my one whom I can enjoy such with. At this point in time of my life, I am ready to begin dating. However I must state I am only looking for serious long-term commitment, leading to marriage; nothing less. While I admit I believe in being one hundred percent honest as I possibly can and realizing I have opened myself of every aspect of who I am in reference to the first two books I wrote among the multitude of what I have written and posted online throughout the years, I also do not deny to being completely honest and incapable of lying. As I do prefer those with a like-minded though process, I am open minded enough to look at differing points of view. However there are certain aspects which I am unabashedly specific of what I will and will not tolerate, abuse being a big key factor of what I am against. However I hardly believe, I am the only one.

In reference to also proving such with the actions I have taken in reference to my Medal of Honor Art Project in reference to my personal beliefs in regards of the patriotism I feel for the United States of America, and how proud I am of the military Armed Forces and law enforcement agencies; I cannot be with someone who is not supportive of those different branches and divisions. While I can understand there are some bad apples in the bunch, if you blame all law enforcement or all military members for a handful of bad ones; please do not bother me, in such. I have been completely honest in my opinions of being open minded and accepting of the various aspects my political and religious beliefs while standing firm in my opinions yet giving the opportunity for discussion to prove my opinions otherwise, as I am not one who cannot fail at times to agree to disagree, as there are various points which I believe can be done so in a respectful manner. Though such has not occurred in reference to my opinions or if so in very little and so minutely, but still willing to listen to other viewpoints.

I have been a staunch Conservative Republican who is openminded enough to vote for Democrats and other Political representatives, when I have felt such was necessary. Someone being a Democrat is not a problem, as I can understand varying viewpoints. There have been several individuals who I have known over the years who have been extremely supportive of the DNC and while our opinions have differed among voting peculiarities, the respectful discussions had occurred. Ironically to some people, I have actually enjoyed such discussions as the ability to see another point of view is always interesting to me as I guesstimate to some it is far more to have some differing points of view for a lively discussion rather than only agreeing on every single item without anything differing or having another aspect to look at in thoughts. While there is always enjoyment when there are similar points of views and beliefs, it is when there are only the same views without any other perspective or explanation for the reasons for such of some beliefs which have bored me.

Thus I admit I have also supported the current President of the United States of America and Vice President of the United States of America and agreeing with many points of view, also being able to have a different view in some ways despite the large portion of agreeing points. For example whereas the Trump family has owned multiple businesses in various ways and though they are from the northern area of the east coast compared to where I grew up, their viewpoints have differences because of their personal experiences. Whereas I had not had the privileges their family has had, I have had the ability to agree with many aspects their family had brought forward into the public spectrum to assist various aspects throughout the United States of America. While I did send those first books I wrote of earlier in this post to them, I also had sent those books to many other groups and organizations after having filed with The Library of Congress; and thus all sides of the proverbial political aisle having the access to such information within those pages without any biases. Admittedly I have voted majority of my electoral ballots for those representing the GOP or Republican party; I also have voted for Democrats and others of other political parties when I have felt the individual was the correct choice. Though there have been times when only a Democrat was available to vote for, there have been other circumstances which there was a Republican in the same political arena but it felt correct to vote for the Democrat or other person of whatever political affiliation.

Well before they had finalized their electoral win of which they earned, I knew who is the current President of the United States of America and who is the current Vice President of the United States of America were going to become as such. Though admittedly I did not know the name Mike Pence, I did know the best type of individual to be at President Trump’s side for the best possible outcome when he had began running for the President of the United States of America; as I had discussed with various people, when I was in Washington state. If you chose to vote for Former Secretary of State Hillary (as I call her Hitlary because of how I view the way she runs her business), that was your choice to vote for that path; which each has their right to choose who they vote for, and also how they respond to whether or not someone they voted for comes out as victorious in which earning the specific elected spot. However being honest if some did not know, even those who do not earn the election still end up winning other earnings in the end of the political race.

In reference to Former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton, she earned the proceeds as well as the ability to relax and not have to worry about certain aspects from her husband’s Presidency affecting and impacting hers had she won; while also earning the ability to watch the responses of those who did not understand, certain aspects of various political election points. Has anyone ever noticed how those who had been supportive of her political campaign back in 2016 have still continued on with their work, but Hillary has been out of the limelight and only comes out when she wants to? Has anyone thought about how much she is able to enjoy time with her daughter and grandchildren, compared to when she was continuously at work? How many years had she been involved with politics? Can anyone truly say she and her candidacy if she had earned the Presidential title of the United States, she would not have the constant berating from if who is the President of the United States of America and his family; had lost? I doubt Former President of the United States of America William J. Clinton and his daughter are upset, just as while I understand Former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton may have initially been upset; from the videos I had recently seen of her, she looks much healthier than she had during the campaign and more importantly, much happier.

However if there is a problem within yourself for the fact I have supported who became and is our current President of the United States of America, please do not bother wasting my time in any attempts to date me. I will give you a warning of the questions I am about to write out which I expect to be answered honestly, are not for the meek. However whether you are a Republican, Democrat, Libertarian, Green, or other political party affiliate; that is not of importance to me, but who you are and what you believe as well as why is what is important in all ways to me. I am not attempting to intimidate anyone, I am simply stating I know who I am and what I prefer and if there is someone who wants to be with me, I need that person to know who they are and what they prefer. The answers I receive I will not share with anyone without their permission as I believe in honesty; but I also believe in privacy.

There is not a correct or incorrect answer to determine in full one way or another, however I do prefer to have a detailed understanding to evaluate which choice is made. I have my own personal preferences of course but just because of my personal preferences, does not mean that the responses will automatically qualify one way or another. If your answers intrigue me, the more likely I will be interested to know more and meet for dating potential.


1). What do you believe in reference to religion, and/or spirituality?

2). Do you have a religion you practice, and how did you arrive at your beliefs?

3). Do you have a spiritual path you practice, and what are your preferences to such?

4). If you are non-religious or non-spiritual or Atheist why, and how did you find such a path?

5). How do your religious/spiritual beliefs differ from when you went through various stages, in your life? In your childhood? In your teenager years? In your adult years, to current times?

6). Who influenced you the most in reference to your religious/spiritual beliefs, and how did that person or they influence you as such?

7). What is your political stance, party affiliation, and why do you believe as such?

8). How do you feel about the current President of the United States of America, and the Vice President of the United States of America?

9). What do you think of the United States of America’s Armed Forces, and why?

10). What do you think of the law enforcement branches and divisions in the various states though specifically the one you reside in, and why?

11). How do you view the Congress and Senate, in reference to what they have done for the United States of America? Why, in whatever state you reside in? What about in reference in comparison, to the State of Texas?

12). Who is your personal favorite and least favorite individual in your Congress and Senate, and why? If you do not have a favorite or a least favorite, what are the positive and areas which you think need improvement and why?

13). What is your sexual preference, and ultimate fantasy/fantasies? What label do you consider yourself to be, in reference to lifestyle endeavors?

14). What is the kinkiest sexual act, you have been a part of?

15). Where is the location which you would like to achieve, the preferences of; if you could choose anywhere in the world? Top ten locations?

16). Do you have any medical conditions?

17). Have you ever had any Sexually Transmitted Disease, and what have you done to prevent the spread of that; if it was not curable? If curable, how long did you take to get the clearing taken care of?

18). Are there are medical considerations, which are of importance for your daily health? Weekly? Monthly?

19). Have you ever been in trouble with the law? If so, what have you done? (Traffic violations such as speeding while yes in trouble, are not a disqualifying factor)

20). What type of music do you prefer to listen do, and do you dance? Is there a difference between the music you listen to, and the music you dance to?

21). Are you gainfully employed and/or do you run your own business, successfully? If you own your own business, what are you doing to improve the business?

22). What is your idea, of romance?

23). If able, what would your ideal date be?

The ultimate measure of an individual is not where they stand in moments of comfort and convenience, but where they stand at the time of challenge and controversy.

We must reject the idea that everytime a law is broken society is guity, rather than the law breaker. 

Freedom is never-more than one generation away, from exinction.  We do not pass freedom on through our blood stream because freedom must be fought for, protected, and handed on for the next generation to do the same.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

It should not take a head injury to figure this out, because you are smarter.

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