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It should not take a head injury
*after personally sustaining a head injury & coma*
to figure this out...

 
 
 
 
 
 


After a Drill Sergeant threw Me into the metal part of the bunk when I was in Basic Training for the United States of America's Army branch at Fort Sill Oklahoma #FortSill #FortSillOK #FortSillOklahoma #OK #Oklahoma in the year of 2000 on Psalm Sunday, I have dealt with the situations as best as I have been capable to do so while taking care of the situations and asking for assistance as per the required explanations of the information to such facts first.  While making the attempts to get assistance for the aspects thereof as to the reality, the aspects of where and when as to the multiple attempts to ask for assistance for me.  As my journal blog for when I was ready to bring such as to my other works forward since as to the lengths of time as to where my modeling was as to the modeling page information, just as the other pages have the information as to such specifics, and just as this journal blog of mine is as to such facts.


If I had real friends (if as to having met in person face to face in person in real life as to the aspects of this particular reference such as from the state of Texas as to the state of Washington as to the years of 2000 through 2013 if I met within the state of Texas for such references), real (the areas of the tristate region as before the year of 2000) family, and real relationships in real life that recognized me as to the aspects of if as to the face to face in person who started in truth as I had started such in truth as to the after effects from my Psalm Sunday 2000 head injury, as well as the subarachnoid hemorrhage in the frontal lobe of my brain that took 8.5 years to dissipate; then I guesstimate there would be the easier factors as to being capable for me to speak with others in truth in person face to face in person and/or through online measures as to such factors I suppose.  Though would such as to the knowledge of the ways as to how they began such discussions with me as to would there be such a situation, for them to consider as to such if factors as to such discussions with me in truth?


As to some suggestions and commentary within "Finding A Silver Lining" one of several of my bo0ks I personally authored/wrote/compiled as I can only speak and write in truth as per such clarifications as to the reality as to the specifics of such discussions/writings/videos as per my Official You Tube where I have satirical commentary where I comment about the factors as to having dealt with others' opinions about their pop culture references of #NJ #NJstate #NewJersey #NewJerseystate New Jersey, though as to for the most part I have actually preferred to be asked with politeness if as to having read my books and/or seen my website as just the same in reference to the timeframes when I was modeling as to having respect as to what I consider as respect, referencing if as to such polite manners as to discussions if as to such having been noticed because of the factors in my opinion as to having real discussions as communication would be if my website was seen before the year of 2023 as I first began my website in 2015; as in my journal blog posts as to the reality of the years of 2010 through 2013, as to the aspects of introductions as to those timeframes when as to various factors as I did not take selfies as I was actually working with photographers as to my creations of my outfits as per the description on the link to my modeling page(s) as to the references regarding my journal blog updates in the years of 2019 through 2022 as the timeframe onward as to the year of 2023 as to the factors as to how such journal blog entries will be as to such factors as to the aspects of the various topic points.


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 I was born and raised in New Jersey and grew up going throughout the tristate northeast areas mainly, and as to how the reality of when the importance of the situations as to the aspects of reviewing as to such facts regarding the logistics for several factors as to the considerations; the years of 2019 through 2022 as to the review process as to the aspects of the timeframe, prior to the timeframe of the 20 year memorial of 11 September 2001 also known as 9/11 as well as before the 30 year memorial of February 1993, as to the northeast areas mostly known as to New York City #NYC #NewYork #NY #NYstate #NYU though also as to the #Pentagon Pentagon, as well as Pennsylvania #Pennstate #Pennsylvaniastate as to the reality of how many New Jersey-ians commute in either direction, depending upon what location for the commute. 


The factors though I have said at times, I re-re-re-re-re-re-grew up in the state of  #Texas #TX #Texasstate Texas as to such factors as to the timeframes, as well as all 26 of my SCUBA #SCUBA #SCUBADiving  Diving certifications I earned were through one school within the state of Texas as I also earned winning first place in a Texas Chili cookoff with more than 20 entries as well as my chili recipe as I am adamant about my recipes as to such aspects just as I am specific as to what it actually takes for me to cook in a BBQ as to the required preparations for when I have BBQed.   


I can sarcastically write, those who know of the Rules of the BBQ as to where I grew up as to the Rules of the BBQ as to such factors to the considerations of such preparations.  However that is to cooking food as to the differences of my journal blog entries, as to the factors as to proverbial aspects of food for thought as the difference of real food in real life as to the facts of the situations to such attention to the details as well as attention to the information.


Such facts as to the metaphors in some of such factors that only after reviewing such information as to the aspects of the fiction book series that were as to for My personal life as to such dreamland sorts of factors as to the differences of such hypotheticals, the references thereof as to such regards as to the logistical emotional with the real situations as per the names I was informed of at the timeframes referenced review as to My journal blog as to the situations overall.  


If as to my journal blog being found and read as to where what I consider as common sense, as to the aspects of my satirical saying   how it should not take a head injury to figure out. 
 

*(sometimes utilizing articles discussing facts)*
By:  (Reverend) Susan MeeLing
also known as

The One & Only

Lady Dori Belle


...and to biological consenting adults as...

Lady Liberty Belle

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My life  =  My personal life

My life experiences  =  My personal life experiences that some might have something alike or something similar to though theirs is not the exact as to My personal life experiences

My opinion  =  Susan MeeLing's personal opinion that some or many might agree with

My needs  =  My personal needs for me personally though some distinguishing factors as to the aspects where there are different facets of My personal life and thus as to the distinguishing factors as to the different areas of my life, thus for Me personally is going to be for Me personally as to such differences as to the aspects whereas of others as to the factors to the considerations.


The FACT books I authored/wrote/compiled that I published through Amazon for My profits and what I chose/choose for the financial aspects per book:
*  Finding A Silver Lining  (published in print book format in in the year of 2015)
*  Finding The Silver Lining  (published in print book format in the year of 2014)
*  The Modern Day Book  (published in print format book in the year of 2020)
*  The Adventures of Susan MeeLing, SCUBA Diver Extraordinaire  (3 volumes published in print format books in the year of 2020)

 

Fiction Based books I published through Amazon that can have metaphors or proverbial only as some books allow the financial aspects as to donations whereas the newer books do not have such same factors whatsoever as to the financial resources for Susan MeeLing also known as Lady Dori Belle also known as Lady L*** Belle as make sure to not assume that all books will ever be the exact same:
*  "The Curious Children Book Series:  (2 volumes published in the year of 2014/2015)
*  "Fail-Safe:  The Kenedy curse fused with Science Fiction Fantasy  (The New World Order)"  (1 book published in the year of in print format book form 2015/2016 that is the main book to refer to for each of the subsequent books in the series as the 10 volume book series published as the 9 additional volumes in 2021/2022 as not all books were allowed as per My personal choice to be published in print format as to the ideals I have had for My work as to how I personally chose to release My books as to My business plans)
*  "Paroxysm of the Lotus Book Series"  (3 volumes published in print format of books in the years of 2014 through 2015 and then 7 books were published in the year of 2021/2022)


To Contact Me to ask me what My needs, my wants, My preferences, My Ideals, and/or My desires is only to utilize My To Contact Form to ask me respectfully after explaining yourself as to such aspects first as asking Me is the best way to actually do so correctly to actually learn to know of what My actual needs are for the factors of as the same in reference to my wants and so on and so forth.  That includes though not limited to asking if there is something to assist Me with, arranging Book Signing, arranging requiring My permission first as to my needs for any appearance(s)/meeting(s), 


Do not assume that just because I authored/wrote/compiled books that you know Me, you know of Me as to such factors as to the factors of the reality of the social media.


If I personally have reached out to you directly as to requesting a meeting and/or meetings, I have done so with the factors of respect regarding the aspects of what I could figure as being respectful as to the time(s) as to upon your schedule though also as depending upon my schedule as well.  The contact information regarding phone numerical factors as to the aspects of My To Contact Form through My website, as to making attempts as to the ease to correctly communicate clearly.  


Ensure if you are going to ask about Me, to know the exact-ish amount of time the individual actually knew Me in real life in person face to face in person in real life to verify the correct numerical positions of time that they may have known Me or if they knew of me as to the facts.


My modeling is not the same as speaking with Me face to face at all, because that is not the same as in real life as to the facts that in real life in person face to face in person actually requires those facts of in real life in person face to face in person in real life where a human being in person face to face in person is in real life with another human being is the common sense for in person face to face in person in real life as there is a difference to getting My personal permission first.


I do not allow anyone to misinterpret ever, as there is the clear facts that if someone/anyone says they can interpret Me, ensure they actually have what I personally consider as the starting point of full foundation as to actual capacities to do so correctly as what I consider as the correct foundation as to making sure the foundation of theirs in not made out of sand as to the differences of whereas to the facts my foundation is forged from where the stones as to the rock of My foundation is to the sturdiness thereof as to My personal life as to My personal experiences as to Me personally; as in my personal opinion that imitation is not flattery at all in any capacity when in reference to Me.


Since I comprehend Myself as to My and what My needS are as to what My wantS are as to what My preferenceS are as to what My idealS are as to what My desires are, then as to My comprehension of such factors in reference to Myself as to My personal requirements as when I have written about My personal life experiences as to the words I personally have chosen to describe such facts, then as to My life = My personal life experiences.


Manners, respect, human decency, and protocols are as a beginning point for what My personal standards are for Me.

Make sure to be capable to distinguish when the facts of My journal blog are in the capacity of either facts with satire and/or facts with metaphors and/or facts with figurative and/or facts as literal as the reality that My personal life experiences are My personal life experiences as to where some might relate to what I personally have dealt with, the full combination of what I have survived is the difference as to where the distinction is.


I survived the attacks on the soil of the homeland of the United States of America as to the tristate areas of New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania in the year of 1993 in the month of February as well as the timeframe of 9/11 also known as 11 September 2001 because I was born and raised in New Jersey in the three-county/three-borough area that had the most amount of commuters to New York City as well as other factors of the reality as to the state of New Jersey that those factors of pop culture are usually NYCers or Pittsburgians or Philadelphians and not New Jersey-ians pop culture as the aspects of comprehending the facts as that pop culture only has small amounts as to the differences of the fullnesses thereof.


What I know for what My personal comforts are as to being capable to see as to such factors, translates to comprehension of Myself as to comprehending what is best for Me personally as to what is best for My work as well as what is best for My personal comforts.  As hours change to days and days change to weeks and weeks change to months and months change to years and years change to decades, I comprehend My personal needs as I comprehend I have made attempts for My personal needs to be correct for Me as to what My personal considerations are.


Keep your thoughts in what I consider as purity as to such actual purity of innocence, and the ease of life is made so as to the factors of the ensuring the correct actions without assumptions.


Acknowledging biases first without judgement, has no capacity of being biased as no bias can be without the capacities of bigotry, and thus without bigotry then there is the capacity of acknowledging biases without judgement.


I personally am unaware of fans of Mine because I do not assume that I have any because of what My considerations are for what a fan of Mine would be, as the factors when considerations as to fandom as to Myself is as to the factors of what I personally consider as comfort.


People should be more uplifting as to the aspects of being appreciative if as to appreciating work of Mine, as I have not need/want/desire of any male dominant in the supposed to be consenting adult lifestyle regarding such factors of any type of relationship outside of acquaintance or friendship only, as that is not in any capacity ever a turn on to what My considerations are for Me at all in any capacity whatsoever as it has not ever been a turn on to Me.


The reality that Females have the capacity to be strong enough to be themselves if as to such morals and ethics as to such reality needs and requirements, thus as to where males have needed to accept the facts as not all males are as to what they might think of themselves as the same in reference of professional in what is supposed to be consenting adult biologically legally as to informed, as how they themselves are not anything of any turn on to Me as they are the opposite 100% in every capacity of anything that would ever be capable to turning Me on personally as I personally am not a lesbian as obviously a female biologically who would enjoy such factors would only be as to such aspects as to having to acknowledge such within herself.


As a Pansexual as to the intellectual capacities where I can be interested though not necessarily turned on, as to the physical does not make the aspect of what is of attraction to Me in the aspects whereas some might assume, as the factors as to the emotional connections depend and vary as to the situations, whereas the spirituality of such factors as My comprehension of Eclectic Judeo-Christianity religion is important, as the factors of sexuality of what sexually is attractive for Me is as to how the personal connection is as to the genuinity.


Being Polyamorous as I am personally is as to the intellectual capacity of being capable to discuss multiple topics while actually caring in truth, emotionally having the capacity to connect and such communicative factors, as the other three aspects thereof as to the references to the differences as to romantic factors as to platonic factors as there is My personal capacity where I always begin as to platonic factors first before I have ever or would ever consider anything sexually and/or romantically as personally it takes a lot more for Me to be capable to connect romantically than it ever has as to connecting platonically because of the way I personally was raised.


Thus if interested in dating Me as to in the capacity of not setting a date for a meeting as that obviously would not be the exact same unless previously brought up as to discussions, then as to such aspects as to arranging such with Me to ask Me first if that is an interest as to other(s) regarding such aspects. 


Thus the as I am as where I am a Female Dominant as to being as I am, then as to such acceptance there is a difference as to Myself being a Feminist as to the differences whereas the factors of feminazism as to the references of those who would have such factors as to their patterns of choices as to their behaviour as to the factors whereas the proof of such to the aspects of the differences of reviewing information from a different point in time as to such a point in time as to the facts that need to be paid attention to as to the facts of the time.


Completing a logistical review of My personal life experiences while acknowledging My experiences as well as My emotions from the facts of the situations from the years of 2019 through 2022, is not the same as to having the capability of time to review such all at the exact point in time of the exact point in time as that should not take a head injury to figure out.


My work as to My writings as to if used in speeches as the ease thereof as the 10% for Me of such if financial factors as to the tithing viewpoints, if as to such factors of consideration.


The links to My website as to My different pages of My website including My Journal Blog, are capable to share the link as to discussing the details as to the information of; though such facts for the fullness to be capable to read more to learn from the knowledge, is of the facts where such importance.


Since the requirements in reference to My website as to where tghe finances were only for Me to be capable to utilize were not responded directly to Me personally as there was not anyone ever allowed to be involved as to on My behalf ever, as to the aspects where since I personally did not have any such discussions as to what My personal minimum standards were as to being met for what My personal requirements are/were/are as to where there was and is not any allowances for such misinterpretations ever as to the clear distinctions as to Me personally only as to where I have clarified repeatedly that I am the one and only as to ever making the decisions for Myself as well as My work(s).


I personally do not play games, as I do not find games as they are not fun for Me.


I personally do not often watch television/movies as that is not assistive to my headaches/migraines at all, as the after effects from My head injury on Psalm Sunday in the year of 2000 as the additional after effects from the subarachnoid hemorrhage in the frontal temporal lobe of My brain that took 8.5 years to fully dissipate out of the MRI and out of the CAT scans as I have figured as to what works best for me personally.


While I have made attempts to connect with real people as to real friends as I once thought of as to such prior points in time, as to how such aspects went in the years from 2019 through 2022 as to such viewpoints as to such considerations referencing as to what capacities as to such factors regarding the differences as to choices/words/actions/deeds as to such references as to the factors of humanity as per the proof regarding my attempts before as well as during as well as after such points in time.


If as to the current time where each individual seems to think of themselves as a commercial and/or thinks of others as a commercial instead of thinking of each as an individual human being with individual personal life experiences as to how I personally have considered each individual if I am accurate referencing others' opinions as to such if factors, then as to where the reality of such readjustments as to the recalibrations of what humanity is.


The aspects of pop culture as to the facts regarding the differences between the factors of as while there might be some aspects that align in some ways, there are still the facts of the amount of the rest of different experiences and life thereof.


Thus as to such facts whereas what My personal needS as to what My personal wantS as to such factors, such aspects of the #ADA ADA requirements as to the facts regarding My being medically retired or being considered as to such disability aspects as to the reasons why ADA aspects are in such as for Me as to such aspects; though actually being capable to have as well as utilize such aspects as to My benefits in the correct capacities for Myself, as to the aspects whereas such factors of proof regarding the situations as to such reasons I have also worked as diligently as I have attempted to being capable to provide for Myself as being a biological adult of two biological adult legal aged children I personally gave birth to while having been awake from My coma for less than 1.5 years for one and 2.5 years for the other as to such facts.


Online is important for several aspects, though in real life as to such reality as to the real needs as to such common sense as to the factors of what is required for Me as I comprehend what is actually best for Me and that is not up for interpretations as interpretations always lead to misunderstandings as to the facts as to such proof regarding the aspects thereof as to My personally being capable to be in as well as remain in a good mood as to the attempts I have made to being capable to accomplish such.


While the aspects of My personal belief in real angels as to real faeries as to real spiritual beings as to such facts regarding such as to where I was Confirmed in the year of 1997 as to the aspects thereof to that history, the aspects where such facts as to the references thereof as the differences of what are considered as real friends in real life as to the differences of the spiritual aspects if there was ever any common sense as to different human beings unless as to such being as cherubim as to homo-sapien-sapiens as to ever being ignorant enough to think that is the same when obviously as to the facts that a real human being as to a real friend as to the difference of a real spirit as to such aspects thereof to real spiritualism capabilities.

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However such is obviously a difference from the aspects thereof, to humanity as human beings are supposed to be and are as to humanity if as to such aspects of the definition of humanity.


If I was/am believed as I understand some have opinions as to religious aspects and/or spiritual factors as to the usage of the words metaphor/proverbial/figurative, there has not been such confirmation for Me to have such knowledge for Myself regarding such aspects to what I would know and understand as to such as per the proof regarding the exact time.


Some do not just get over something as massive as the situations as to February 1993 as to being capable to survive such, as that was not a video game nor was that a computer game nor was that a pop culture fiction aspect as to such references and regards just as 11 September 2001 or 9/11 was not a video game and was not a computer game and was not a pop culture fiction aspect.


There is not the capacity where individuals who have tried to prettify the aspects for individuals to truthfully recover and heal from such aspects because of the requirements as to the truth being told in full, and when the truth is told in full is the only capacity for healing to begin.


Thus as to the facts in reference to My personal life experiences, what support would there be that I could truthfully say and/or write about as to the aspects of such luxuries others have had as to such amounts of individuals as to such support groups as to such friends as to such aspects of discussions as to what discussions would actually be in the references thereof as to what I personally consider as; or would such individuals think that them discussing amongst themselves would be as to the same instead of the aspects thereof as to discussions with Me personally, as to such proof regarding such luxuries as to those types as to such factors as to the aspects of such wannabe aspects.

 

 

Those who would consider Me as wanted as to what I consider as being wanted as to the differences as to such aspects of "Finding A Silver Lining" as there are only so many words in the dictionary to describe, and when individuals choose to be bratty nonconsensually as to such aspects as to such brattiness as to the aspects of the amounts of words as to the amounts of times as to where either the individual is going to be considered as competent to understand or they will be considered as incompetent as to humanity referencing such types as to those factors as to such aspects that I have brought forward as to the proof thereof to the validity of such aspects. 


"Finding A Silver Lining" and "Finding The Silver Lining" are situations that are of My past as to the situations I personally dealt with as to such aspects whereas My suggestions as to the current time as well as the future, are the difference.


"The Modern Day Book" is as to what I noticed as per the years thereof in those references as to what the looks were as to such descriptions for such clear aspects, as the common sense factors as to such regards as to having been born and raised in New Jersey as to the aspects of the differences as to NYC as NYC thinks of such aspects whereas New Jersey has the capacity to prefer the real of the reality as to such differences whereas Broadway wanted to be more like Hollywood and visa versa as to such references.


"The Adventures of Susan MeeLing, SCUBA Diver Extraordinaire" is of what My personal experiences were as to My personal work as to My personal life experiences as to before I began SCUBA Diving as to what I was known as through My name in reference of My personal trainers as to My personal childhood experiences as to such work in reference of protecting and defending the individuals on land above sea level as to the aspects of My work if that was/is actually appreciated.


The aspects where I could see now in the year of 2023 where some capacities of "Fail-Safe" could be as to such if factors as well as "Paroxysm" as to such if factors as while I was only being creative as to such aspects as to My writings, the aspects whereas for Myself personally would be as to the references for such aspects if as to those types as to such psychological distinguishing factors as to what I have been capable to distinguish as to My comprehension of Myself as well as My comprehension of My wrok as I authored/wrote/compiled as to the best of My capabilities as to My overall books.


In reference of "Paroxysm" there is not anyone I ever have personally dated that would ever fit into such descriptions, ever.  The facts regarding where the references thereof to prior timeframes as to Volume 2 are from individuals I personally knew before the year of 2000, as to the common sense factors as to the reality of the overall.


In regards as to "Fail-Safe" and "Paroxysm" in regards of for Me personally as to the relationship aspects of for Me personally as to the references and regards thereof officially for Me personally despite having written of such in an overall way, the aspects of if as to such as for Me personally then as to such clarifications now as to the year of 2023 as to the differences regarding the multiple reasons as to bringing such forward as to healthy acquaintences as to healthy friendships as to health developments of hetero-sexual relationships that as to such hetero-sexual relationships as to the fluidity depending upon the aspects of such a relationship factor if as to the consensual aspects as to each involved being fully informed first as that is the only capacity thereof as to being informed as to officially being informed before such aspects as for the example where I have been honest as to the after effects from My Psalm Sunday in the year of 2000 head injury as to others being informed first officially as to such if factors as to the differences.


The aspects whereas to such if factors as to My books I personally authored without any assistances as to My personal creativity to authoring such aside from the technological factors as to being capable to write such books as to "Paroxysm" and "Fail-Safe" referencing such aspects specifically for Myself regarding such aspects of the specifics as to such details, then I suppose if as to such would be as to prophecy regarding such if factors if such were to ever be for Myself personally; though if as others' interpretations of their own lives as to then the references of whereas being capable to prophesize decades before ever writing though definitely would not ever prefer certain aspects as to certain individuals as to My personal considerations as to the specifics as to such references regarding the factors thereof as to "Fail-Safe" especially though also in such clarifications as to for Me as to "Paroxysm" as to such if factors as to what My personal considerations as to the aspects thereof regarding the aspects not of a novelty as there is a difference between a novel a difference between a novel idea a difference between as to how such aspects of where the problems as to problematic novelty factors as to such misinterpretations in My opinion.


When describing the situations in truth that is the common sense starting point of a foundation, and any who think that such could be fast-forwarded are incompetent as to such aspects where certain factors are required to have such details and information to being capable to actually make such genuine efforts as to progression towards betterment in genuine truth.


The reality where such aspects of when such efforts are direct as to such facts as per the prior amounts of time as to explanations, then as to the facts where either the competency to listen and then think while listening as well as being capable to progress with the correct actions as to such regards as to the common sense.


Maybe it is a bit more truthful than I realized, common sense might actually be a genuinely real superpower. 


Forgiveness is of importance as to such truth in full as best as possible, the factors of as to such if remorseful.


The reasons why of the reality as to where, as to the year of 1993. 


Time is important as to emotions of the situations, retaining such knowledge can assist seeing towards progression of betterment.


Communications are important listening both sides if as to consent, the factors as to information in truth as of much importance. 

Life and Love, Life and Love
Between, Below, and Above


Brightest of Blessings.

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Please share the link to my website and feel free to comment in the section below however know that I am not informed as to any comments made within the area of each journal blog I post, though the ability to express yourselves as to such comments of such are able to be seen of such portions if you so choose.

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I encourage others to share the links and to speak about such topics honestly as to such aspects and situations as my saying as to it should not take a head injury to figure out is the main satirical portion as to my journal blog, as to the facts as to sometimes when wording hits a certain way all one can do is chuckle a bit as to reviewing such portions of information thereof.

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If interested in using my journal blog for articles and/or legal aspects please just remember to put the link to the specific journal blog article area to assist the fuller aspects as to the clarifications for others to also be able to read through for such additional details, as well as if there are those who are interested in further discussions and/or commentary and/or interviews and/or speaking arrangements and/or invitational aspects of such journal blog entries I have written please do contact me through my contact form with such details at www.susanmeeling.com/to-contact 

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Please also know the reasons for having such available hopefully assists the more open discussions as to the various details thereof to which I have been honest and truthful about, which additionally to such as to posting on social media in various areas is welcome as the ability to discuss such topics honestly is of importance as it brings a different form of discussions though also assists more to be involved with such viewpoints.  I know there are those who either have not had a social media account and/or have had to wait to be online more often in such aspects depending upon the employment thereof to which the reference to the details in such references per journal blog entry might assist in different ways while additionally giving the ability to still engage online in various forums to which while some may prefer not to have their social media accounts associated with responses on my website which is acceptable; it does give a forum for such discussions as well for those who may not have the ability to go into further details in certain other areas online, as to a different cover though the reality of such transparency on my part as to having been open and honest as to my community area involvements additionally hopefully open the doors and open the lines for more genuine and honest communication within the age appropriate guidelines thereof for the betterment and clarity among more.

 

 

Admittedly only recently in the year of 2020 had I realized I may physically look similar to different characters in different aspects of pop culture however I did not grow up being allowed to watch such aspects and since after waking up from my Psalm Sunday 2000 head injury coma, I do not usually watch such pop culture because of the after effects from my Psalm Sunday in the year of 2000 head injury as to knowing the personal aspects of what is best for myself.  However I did not and do not know of the pop culture references many of the times because of not being allowed to watch anything other than G-rated movies/television throughout my childhood and teenager years in the 1980s to the 1990s as the rating systems may have been different for such times, as I also was not allowed to watch PG or PG13 or any other type of PG until I was a certain age which again similarly to such times in the 1980s and the 1990s the rating system may have been different to such aspects; of which once I was the age of 18 years old biologically I have been able to watch anything and everything I personally prefer or want to watch.

 

 

Additionally I do not play games despite possibly looking physically as what characters might be as to such, as again that is something within pop culture which I have not usually known nor understood a reference to such in pop culture however I encourage people to know the difference between a pop culture reference as to knowing the difference to the human being spoken with as I have picked up there are several individuals who may not have known there is a difference between what images and/or videos as to being seen compared to the interactions with others when in real life in person as well as when speaking with others through various forms of online communication of which the care and the concern as to such aspects in my opinion is of importance to review for such realities. 

 

 

While I understand others have the choice to play games for whichever aspects thereof, please comprehend I am not one who will play games as I personally do not find such appealing to me nor to the after effects of as well as from my Psalm Sunday year of 2000 head injury just as others with and/or without a head injury may have a different viewpoint to such aspects as to games as some just have a life which such is considered as a luxury to play games comparatively though cannot do.

 

 

Please be respectful as to such as well as if you meet me and/or see me in public and speak with me, please be honest as to such as I have not ever assumed anyone had ever known of my website or my work as to the fact I have known there are many websites throughout the internet of which if there have been hints to such at any point in time there has not been the ways of which I would view such aspects as to the reference without the actual bringing of such information up first by who I have spoken with because of the ways as though I write as I do when I speak it is not always the same way as such comes across online possibly as there are differences as I would guesstimate others would know as per their own online aspects as to how such discussions have been with others and/or writings thereof as to when corresponding with others.

 

 

Though I know there are more than just the two social media areas of which Facebook and Twitter have been available, because of certain topics of my journal blog entries as well as the multiple social media platforms I lease such areas at the discretion of the reader to posting such aspects because of the knowledge certain topics are for certain age ranges as to the details thereof though because of certain aspects as to the intellectual levels for the reasons as to the choices thereof for what I have known some companies have assisted with in reference to the rating system as to guidelines as to the clicking of certain links for such software references as to controls.  I have done the best I could to ensure the ability for if in reference to biologically under the age of 18 years old for such choices up to the parent(s)/legal guardian(s)/grandparents to the topic points I have/do written/write about as well as kept such details more modest for the ability for such aspects of choice to the appropriate levels of discussions, of which hopefully with the additional aspects as to the genres assist with such abilities for the clarifications thereof.  

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If newsworthy, please do send to the news organizations if there are topics of which are interesting that should be broadcast upon the various news media stations as to the specifics within the posts I have put together.

REMEMBER:

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After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.

 

 

When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.

 

If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.

 

You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 

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Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.

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Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

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Do make sure to link my journal blog entry articles to yours if you refer to my works for any of your research in the slightest, for proper credit. 

 

Thank you, in advance.

REMEMBER:

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After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.

 

 

When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.

 

If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.

 

You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 

​

Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.

​

Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

​

Do make sure to link my journal blog entry articles to yours if you refer to my works for any of your research in the slightest, for proper credit. 

 

Thank you, in advance.

Remember, since I was either six or seven years old I have been giving warnings as to the best of my ability as to the visions I had which began when I was in second grade of Elementary school.  The first warning I gave officially as to my nightmare vision compared to my dream vision was in the year of 1988 or 1989, compared to the online writings and my books as well as my journal blog entries year timeline for the information.


If anyone is upset please direct your upset towards those who had made the choices to constantly needlessly block my warnings and/or try to explain otherwise as to their trying to curb their responsibilities, in comparison to the responsible and respectful choices as best as I could possibly do so as a child starting as to such information at the age of when I was six in 1988 or seven years old in 1989.


I made every attempt to inform as best as I possibly could, though hopefully the clarifications throughout my various books and writings as well as journal blog entries compared to the amount of people in multiple areas which I had spoken with about in person from the years of 1988 or 1989 through to 2012 more continuously before 2013. 


In the year of 2019 is when I began reviewing such details and onward through the years since 2019 more officially, however I made the attempts to give the warnings and what others' choices have been as to whatever proof thereof to who you should be speaking with as to what they told you in comparison as to the upset and anger with in comparison.


How many assistances I have made attempt towards betterment as to the clarifications from the year of 1988 or 1989 onward did it truly have to take for each to genuinely pay attention, as I have been making the best attempts to assist for the best possibilities how?

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Combining Original Accounts for Clarification: #44 of 88

In reference of combining all of my journals I wrote through my original #fetlife account which I will post the link at the bottom for the clarifications thereof, I am going to have the transparency brought forward as to what can be seen from the original posting dates as to the current timeframe of this day 28 November 2021 for those to see as to my original #Facebook accounts of Susan MeeLing as well as Lady Dori Belle for the additional ability to see the connection links as to what I had discussed for many years and decades in person as well as online as to such factors as best as I could as to the circumstances. Possibly such details will assist to make sense, in the comparisons thereof as to the amounts of details though in addition I do not pretend or hide myself from my truth which others should realize it is important to be honest and truthful in many more ways than just in one or two moments as it is imperative to be more capable to recognize the truth in such aspects of life for far more than some might have realized despite all of my warnings as to what I knew to bring forward to assist as best as possible.



I will begin with posting my newer updated journals from my original account and work backwards as to the irony I noticed. There will be plenty to read in the ways of, whether or not you choose to venture into the areas of the website fetlife.



Posted on 27 December 2012 though edited for the correcting updates on 29 November 2021 as to noticing several situations...



Day Ten: 1 confession...the LAST day...



Day Ten: 1 confession...

27 December 2012



Wow...from The List's beginning...all the way until today...just wow...




As I have said before, I thought that this was going to be fairly easy, for I thought I knew myself well enough. However, going through each day, one by one...I have made myself honestly and truly delve within the depths of my soul to reach for all answers that I could possible think of, at the time, for every question...




Much has gone through my thoughts before each Writing, during each Writing...and long after each Writing...



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I took nothing lightly, though, of course, being me; I made a few smart ass comments here and there...but nothing nearly as much as usual...




The List has definitely opened my eyes to more of an insight of who I am and how I became as such, through the time that I have been on this planet, to my coma, to my ex-marriage, to my family, to my friends, and beyond...but mostly...beyond anything that I could have ever thought or expected...and I am ever-so thankful for you, _rhonda for posting this for me to find and work on.




Personally, I think that at some point...and maybe even at a variety of times throughout the course of one's life...one should look into answering these questions for themselves, whether or not they feel the need to post it publicly.



...



Why did I choose to post this publicly?



Simple, really.



I wanted physical representation of what all I thought of, went through, and the like. That is first and foremost. I wanted to SEE in black and white...



Secondly, because I am not and was not afraid to make what is me and what makes me tick a public knowledge...for...I despise those stupid little shits who send me cock pic avatars who exist within the realm of fetlife... I HOPE that these people who claim to be interested...actually READ before writing a message to me...



...though I doubt it... ...sigh...



The third reason, kind of ties into the second reason, a little bit...but in an EXTREMELY different way... As I am not afraid to be myself, as I am one of the first people who will willingly delve into the depths of who I truly am inside, what makes and keeps me happy, and what I will not tolerate...sometimes, I need someone whom I am friend's with, ~ to look over things....maybe teach me something new by a comment that is made...or messages sent...or whatever communication happens...



BTW: ONLY those whom I actually give a concern about, honestly matter to me when it comes to opinions...not just random ass wipes who think that being sarcastic is actually aiding the situation...but I guess...maybe even then...I technically DO learn something...



I guess, it is what it is...




Anyway, the 4th and final reason that I am going to write about; as there are other reasons, but just not as poignant...well...at least...in my opinion...




This is a reason unto itself, however, at the same time; it adds parts of #1 and #3 together, in order to make #4...I guess, ironically...especially since this IS the order of importance...but I digress...




...I want others who may come across the Writings or The List to see, that it can actually be completed and accomplished...




I want others to look within themselves to find what is best for them and what is no longer needed for their highest good to create the happiness within themselves and within their worlds...so there is less suffering for them...even in the smallest way...




...whether or not they do...of course...that is completely up to that individual. However, at least, they have seen that the list can be accomplished, with dedication; and can aid one to see things differently...should one allow themselves to...




If it helps just 1 person...it has been worth it to post publicly...




So...those are some of my reasons...




It is what it is...




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However, now it is time to finish and finalize The List of Exercises that I first began 10 days ago...




So, without further adue...




Day Ten: One confession...

As usual...being me...I cannot adhere to the directions...so...once again..I am going to change the rules, for myself...

Instead of 1 Confession...I am going to write about 2 Confessions...each one extremely different from the other...




...sigh...




I do not honestly know which Confession is going to be harder for me to admit to...but both weigh so heavily on my soul...so...at this point...this is why I have chosen to write about the 2 things that bears so many burdens upon me...mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually...

...well...here it goes...

  • CONFESSION #1:

This one has to do with the military and my "service" within the Army...




I have never really gone into the actual details of how I ended up with my injury from the Drill Sergeant, beyond explaining that he smoked me continuously, before shaking me violently and throwing me into the metal bunk; knocking me into a coma, and ending up with all of my medical conditions...




With this, I must start from the VERY beginning of when I first entered the Army...well...to be quite poignant on timing...exactly around the time of 3.5 months before I entered the service...




I have gone on and on about how I have ALWAYS admired the military Fe/Males who give their life and their freedoms up, in order to uphold freedom for civilians; from the time I first saw my 1st soldier at Fort Monmouth in New Jersey...all the way up to now...




Around 3.5 months before I joined the Army; I graduated a semester early from high school. I was supposed to graduate a whole year early, with how I had planned my high school schedules each year...but...when my family moved from New Jersey to Illinois...SO MANY credits were not accepted...sigh...



Though in my opinion should have been and should be considered for the acceptances thereof in my opinion officially, as the resending of such details should be considered for the clarification portions thereof for the genuinity thereof as proven.




SIDE NOTE: Please explain to me how Latin is not considered a foreign language in Crystal Lake, Illinois? Now Latino or Latina, Latin as in the Greco-Roman Latin.



Because...last time I checked...the "language" that is foreign to MOST people to begin with...is Latin... Yes, it is the basis of the 5 Romantic Languages and the beginning of the English language with Greecian heritage...but seriously...I could not have 1 year granted to me for credit out of the 3 YEARS that I excelled in that class??? Because it was "not a foreign language"...HOW IS LATIN NOT A FOREIGN LANGUAGE???




...ugh...




YES...I am STILL bitter about that...that meant extra time with the situations of the school that I did not like or get along with...sigh...but in some ways...it was a good thing...as I helped some people along the way in Illinois...




...unknowingly, until I was told...but helped them along the way nonetheless...




The last day of school was the most bittersweet day ever...sigh...College Algebra with Trigonometry and Calculus...my favorite class for so many reasons...the teacher...my friends...and then...the last day of school...Dan K.... I never knew what I did to help him...and he did not go into detail beyond "No one has ever done that for me...in all my years of school...no one has ever helped me..."




...sigh...




I do not think I will ever forget what that male taught me that day...




No matter what I am doing...as long as I think that it is for the morally or the ethically correct reasons...in SOME way...it can help someone that sees, more than I could ever know...or realize...or understand...and THAT is a good reason to be true to oneself...and be compassionate towards humanity...




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Rest in peace...for your soul had to bear too much...no matter how beautiful you were within...it was a shame no one saw it... For you...whenever I hear "Vincent" by Don McClean...you always come to my thoughts...and I always hope blessings to your soul...wherever it is...as to Daniel who I had known in Crystal Lake South in Crystal Lake Illinois.




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Honestly...a part of what happened between he and I truly enforced my whole ideals of wanting to join the service, even more; and as soon as I could...I drove my happy ass over to the recruiter's station by the grocery store's shopping strip.




Talking with the recruiters, I had a ball, as I knew their language and they did not have to go over much information with me...even though they still did...by some laws... ...Rattcliff???...I think he was my recruiter... (and just as an F.Y.I.: THAT male was one hell of a sex symbol...DAMN!!! He was FINE!!! Tall...dark brown - almost black hair...BLUE eyes... ...ugh... Just thinking about his looks, gets me wet...mmmm...though if that is the correct name in the reference of the brunette male)




...ahem...




re-adjusts self




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I joined the Army, after fighting my parents tooth and nail, for them to emancipate me and allow me to live my life the way that I saw that I wanted to...perhaps...had I waited until I was 18 years old to join...maybe this incident would not have happened...or maybe it would have materialized in a different manner...I do not know...and I will not nor do I care to know...for that is the past...and the past needs to stay exactly there...in the past...




As I have said before, Zero Week was easy as pie...I mean...all one had to do was pay attention to the list of instructions that one was given BEFORE leaving the state that they came from. If one packed more than what was allowed or if one packed contraband...well...one was smoked to high heaven...and that was JUST during Zero Week.




My training group went through the typical process of getting uniforms and having shots given (damn that Pen... shot is a BITCH!!!) as we meandered through whatever the Sergeants in charge of us showed us or took us to.




Throughout the entire time we were in Zero Week; we were constantly checked on and had to check in...to EVERY



SINGLE PART OF THE BASE...




F***...THAT took FOREVER...sigh...




"Hurry up and wait..."




...YEPPERS!!!...




Finally, it came to the time for everyone to weigh in, test the bodies of all who were there, and weed out those who needed to go to "Fat Camp" before they were even allowed to be considered to go on to Basic Training.




The Sergeants ALWAYS look for the show offs...and so do I...but in a different manner...




So, when it was time for each trial of athletics; the Sergeants would get everyone riled up to do their best and blah blah blah; before asking the final question for ANYONE who answered...



"Who has experience in this ____?"




And of course, there was always the 1 jackass who would run their mouth off about being champion for their state in one field or another...and every single time...those retards who drew attention to themselves, would be expected to hold the "high standard" for everyone to achieve for that activity.




My FAVORITE was the 1 mile run...it was the very last PT Test exercise left to weed out the weak.




BEFORE I LEFT, I KNEW NOT TO HAVE MY NAME KNOWN...be invisible and the Sergeants will not fuck with you AS much...




So, this 1 female stands up after the question was asked, because not ONE person realized what the Sergeants were doing...well...most didn't, anyway...




She was from somewhere in the southern states, and she was PROUD that she won 1st Place in whatever State Competitions that she had been a part of for Track and Field.




...oh yeah...this one got my competitive nature going...




...so...I took it upon myself to keep my mouth shut (as I was going to do anyway) about my Track and Field experience.



I did not want to write a check that my ass could not cash...and...once again...I was NOT going to give the Sergeants any ammo against me...because I knew that everything that goes on during Zero Week...is reported to the Drill Instructors...so the reality of my assistance they are prepared...and my safety and security as to what I knew would have to come forward as to the full clearing of my name and all such portions thereof to take the situations and remove the binds thereof as to the truth revealed as to the actualities of what I have assisted with in the comparisons as to what I have been falsely accused of.




The males were the first ones to race, and the jerk off who went on about his T&F experience, was finished in 2nd Place.



The Sergeants gave him HELL for not coming in 1st Place, for all of the smack that he had talked about his level of experience.




I looked at the female who went and spouted her mouth off watch everything unfold...and I watched her eyes grow big...




Hee hee hee...




I was "Ranger 13" when it came to sounding off for each completed lap, and if the Sergeants did not acknowledge your call; it never happened and you had another lap to run.




I was in the 3rd group to start off and the female who went shooting her mouth off was in the 1st group...actually..."Ranger 13" to be frank...which...of course, they did on purpose... When the starter pistol went off for my group; I took off and I never looked back, with the exception to make sure that my "Ranger 13" was accounted for. And in all honesty, it was not until I was 1/4-1/2 around the track that the Sergeant told me to stop, for I was completed in my part. So, I bolted off to the center grass to calm down.




At the end of everything; hee hee hee...where is that halo again???...




The female who started a large amount of the drama in Basic Training did not make the Top 5...let alone the Top 10...she made the bottom of the Top 15...for the bottom ranking in the comparisons as to what I was informed of later as to my personal ranking scores.



Hee hee hee...and she got SO MUCH SHIT for that!!! LOL!!! (another sign that I was a Sadist long before I came to the BDSM Lifestyle...LOL)



I...on the other hand...was the only female who made the Top 10...let alone the Top 5...and actually...I won/earned 3rd Place out of the entire group...



Seeing her face with that...PRICELESS!!!




However, I did not think that my good deeds would be noticed or paid much attention to...and I was wrong...Zero Week ended for me...or...well...Zero Week-ish ended for me...and the recruits and I were loaded on the cattle cars and driven across the tracks for everyone to end up at the "Star-ship"...that was what it was called at Fort Sill Oklahoma.




As we unloaded, the Drill Sergeants were flying off the handle and yelling at everyone who was not getting in gear, fast enough. I grabbed my stuff and I fell into line.




The typical 1st Week of Basic Training went by...the mind fucks...the sweat sessions...the training classes on everything from what STD someone can catch (and how bad it can get and what it looks like...SO VERY MUCH WHY I AM SO CAREFUL AND SELECTIVE!!!) to procedures to drill to ranking to marching to courses to so on and so forth...I remember bits and pieces of some classes and training sessions...but only small bits and pieces...




Anyway, at some point in time; we went to either the CCC or COC course and I did not realize that my athletic abilities shown above all others...including most males in my Company...




...sigh...




Apparently...some General took notice of me and it pissed off one of the other Drill Sergeants...he began to fuck with me in every single way possible...




I found out later, he had the "Alpha Platoon" with all of the cherry soldiers...except me, apparently... Also, his Platoon was majority male based...he had a few females from what I remember...but even those females he messed with mercilessly...




Later...meaning YEARS later...meaning...2012...I was at the Midnight Rope-a-Ho bar with an ex-friend; and she was enjoying her specials while I just pretty much stood around and smoked my cigarettes looking at everyone...and being on the watch out for retards who needed to be checked into their place, if they had gotten to close...




Anyway, this male approaches me out of no where and just stares at me for a little bit before I mouth off some smart assed comment about what the hell he was staring at...and...well...I was put into MY place that night...




He did not yell at me or anything of the sort...but he messed with me needlessly me to the point of today...and beyond...for a while...at the very least...until he realized who I had been the entire time...




He did not start off with a "Hi, my name is___"; ~ NO! ~ ...he started off asking me questions about my past...my past that NO ONE knew...and I instantly started to freak out inside as I had not known anyone in YEARS who knew any of the things that he had asked me...meaning...since Basic Training...




The only things that I will write about his questions are:

  • 1.) He knew what my hair looked like before, when I joined the Army...and then HOW it was cut, when a trip to the PXtra was allowed for those who wanted to cut their hair. ...knowing that fact alone ended up knocking my drink over; that was sitting on the fence, across from me, near no one, and no other people were near the fence on any point, at the time...kinda spooky...and it WAS witnessed by another person...

...ANYWAY...

  • 2.) He knew what Company I was in...and described the logo for my specific Platoon that I was in...

  • 3.) He named off my Drill Instructors that were head of my Platoon...and I remembered 2 out of the 5...

There was plenty more...because I could not believe...or...well...understand who he was or how he knew me...until he told me that he was a Drill Instructor for one of the other Platoons...




We talked for a bit...and in the end, I was told about the General who had noticed me; why the Drill Sergeant who attacked me - did...as well as something I did not know...that I was the first round of an experiment to see whether or not co-ed could work at Fort Sill, Ok...being an Armory base...among much else that I am not going to discuss...I was...and still am...in shock from all that he told me...from what I can remember...as the whole conversation became a blur at some point...




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So...what is my 1st Confession???




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Because, from everything above, as well as everything that I have previously written, on the subject of my injury...I have been completely open and honest about my injury...98%...




Here is the 2% that I left out...




My 1st Confession is...that Drill Sergeant who was messing with me...as much as I "took" everything given to me...from all areas of the spectrum...my confession is...before that incident happened...




...I had allowed everything that the particular Drill Sergeant in mention affect me and come down on me, that day...

I suppose...maybe that is why I went to church...looking back...I became at peace with my soul at that point; after the services were over, and on our way back to the barracks.




I became extremely suicidal that night...and I confess...I allowed that DS to get the best of me...I had tried...and obviously failed...to kill myself that night...I allowed him to get the best of me...and...he won...though in such realistic aspects...did he actually win or did he have the perception he won in comparison to the actualities of the realities in full when such details would inevitably come out and go forward?




Later on...after some more training before lights out...I started to drift off to sleep...




...and then...at some point...we were woken up by him and another Drill Sergeant...and...well...the rest...is history...




So...in short...after all of that rambling...my 1st Confession is:


I was suicidal before the Drill Sergeant attacked me as to the situations of how everything combined was beyond the words of the situations I saw coming forward in the combinations of the nightmare visions at the same time...and I acted upon it...as it is not a weakness to acknowledge such as it is a strength to acknowledge such as to the ways of what assistances in the comparisons thereof as I had worried I was going to fail and nothing had happened to try to make me die...and no one caught me...but...



...nonetheless...what ended up happening...did...once I realized that I actually COULD handle things...




...so I thought...

  • CONFESSION #2

As I have been working on this Writing throughout today...it is now almost 8:30pm...and I began somewhere around 8:15am...and I still have my second confession...



...so...



...sigh...



This one...I am going to TRY to keep brief...or as short as possible...TRY is the key word...we shall see...

Most who know me, know that my marriage to my ex-husband, the father of my children was...abusive...to say the least...

Some people obviously know more than others about the ins and outs of my marriage to Robert...

NOT that this makes anything that I am going to confess justified...however...I am going to point out a few known and unknown facts about what I went through...

  • My now dead-ex-husband Robert "accepted" the fact that I had all of my medical conditions, from my head injury. He knew about the headaches, migraines, loss of memory, cognitive disorders, and so on...however...it was not until after his injury that he admitted that he used every bit of my injury that he could, to mold me into the wife that he wanted me to be. He told me that he knew that I was too timid to look outside of anything that he said, because in my eyes, he had "proven himself" to be a good male. He said, at first, it was not on his mind...but as he went through college and was earning his degrees...it became an interest of his...and...well...the rest happened...

  • I have already dove into how Robert believed in Niccolo Machiavelli and everything that he said, to the point of naming the Miniature Schnauzers "Nick" and "Princess"...

  • I had my suspicions...I finally had confirmation, once again, after his so-called injury in the Army...he had cheated on me...multiple times...with multiple females...and acknowledged such which in turn the ways of how the respect as to such loyalty referencing if I were to ever be involved in a relationship again would be to such levels of manadtory loyalty and faithfulness...I simply could hope in comparison to believe...

...sigh...



At such time in December 2007 he went so far as to remind me of the night that I did a strip tease for him...and when I finished to the situation of regarding him...he got up to leave because he did not want to tell me that he had a date...and...well...he did not want my "scent" near him when he was in his atmosphere...




JUST AS AN F.Y.I.:

...and he told me that he was going to work for the experiments that he was running...which meant he had not ever truly loved me as to the ways which I had arrogantly believed as could ever occur as to myself...sigh...




...as truthfully...who could ever actually love me...? That would mean being able to actually accept me as who I am and to actually be proud of me and proud to genuinely be with me...compared to what I have dealt with...


  • On the other hand...when I was not trying to get my now dead-ex-husband's attention (which he called "bothering" him)...I was doing something wrong then as well, when I would leave him alone to his own devices...for example - homework...

So...at some point in time during our legal only marriage...I was deemed to have the terminology of wifely duties of which was nothing less than rape...and in actuality...I remember the exact time frame...I did not have the chance as what would that truly matter in a location that supposedly claims to care about women's rights and civil liberties as to such points in time as to how small of an amount of time I was awake from my coma before I was pregnant and delivered my two children?



I had just delivered my son a few days...MAYBE 5-7 PUSHING it...probably more like 3-5 days...to the time before actually having been hospitalized at that time in the year of 2001 before the actual delivery...as to the labor timeframe...anyway...



For those who do not know; when a female delivers a child, she is warned by the doctor to NOT have intercourse because the walls of the vagina are healing from...in my words..."pushing out a watermelon in over a 72 hour+ time frame..." and I was ripped and stitched back together...because...well...my hips are tiny...and...well...so are other things...




The first time of which was officially introduced to my vocabulary was after our son was born, and I refused to ever allow such ever again as best as I could prevent it.



...sigh...



  • When I chose to leave my now dead-ex-husband the first time, before our final separation...I was "informed" by that "...according to the law...we are still legally married...in turn...because we are still legally married..."Wifely Duties" are still legally required until legal divorce..." which later I learned otherwise in full as to the right to stand my ground as well as self defense laws in conjunction to ADA and other such Constitutional factors as both within the state of Texas as well as within the United States of America

Those were HIS words, in short...there was a MUCH more detailed explanation that I am just NOT going to go into...




As I said...and as he said...he knew that I was too timid to look outside of the box...and...he knew that I believed what he said was golden...until I learned the truth...



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I admit that I should have researched...




I admit that I should have looked outside the box...




I admit that the first time that at that time when he physically assaulted me and hit me...when I was pregnant with our son...I KNEW that I should have left then...but he was right...I was too weak...as who was there to actually help and assist me in truth?




Though...it is just an excuse...after my coma, I believed what ANYONE told me that I was told or felt that I could trust, at face value...because that is how I was...and how I am...and I thought all lived that way...ESPECIALLY those who served in the military...




However, just like that claim that he went to and succeeded in Ranger School...it was all false...and when the truth came out it was a relief in multiple ways...and I should have seen it for what it was sooner...and I should have done something when I had the feelings that things were wrong...




However, I felt I was pathetic, I was ignorant, I was uneducated, I was closed off, and I was so many things; that once again are just excuses as to why I allowed to happen to me...as it had...



...sigh...



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  • I allowed as to not knowing the factors of what the terms were to bring such forward or to whom to bring such forward to as to the timeframes of 2000 through 2007 as to the conversations I dealt with as to the timeframes thereof...to the point of a concussion after being knocked unconscious for a little while...and being left on the cement path...for who knows how long...in the back yard...as he walked off and went back to work...

...sigh...GRANTED...he did come back to the house to check on me (this was during our separation)...and after giving me a "medical exam"; he told me to drive home to my apartment, slowly, and in the right lane...




...sigh...

  • Gods...I cannot count the amount of lies that I found out after he died...and how horrible of a "human being" he was - if one could actually call him that...



AND HERE IS WHERE WE FINALLY GET TO CONFESSION #2...

In my heart of hearts...I wished for his death...painfully...and slowly...instead all that occurred was he could not deal with all of the ridicule from the stolen valor as to the dress blues as to the ways which was brought forward as to "Finding A Silver Lining (Written) By: (Reverend) Susan MeeLing" as well as my journal blog on my wesbie www. susanmeeling .com #TheOrneryPSA The Ornery PSA.



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I know that no matter what he put me through, that thought should have never crossed my mind...




...and a part of me DOES feel guilty...while other parts of me feel justified because of all that he did to me...from the guns in my face to wake me up; to the knives to my throat to wake me up; to the random yo-yo-ing; to the fact that he killed my dog and he did not even have the decency to use a reasonable sized calliber - for he only used a 22 revolver...not even at least ONE of his Glocks...other 45s...and so on...




For f*** sake! I bought him 3 DIFFERENT GUN SAFES:

1.) for his rifles, 2.) for his pistols, and 3.) for the keys to all of the damn different gun locks I had to buy because he thought that putting guns on top of the shelf in the closet was an acceptable way to keep guns away from kids...




Oh...then there WAS gun safe #4...THAT one was AWESOMENESS...and I wish I never gave it away, just so I could have it...




It was a mahogany wood gun safe...that had a radio...and an alarm clock...and unless one got right up on top of the piece to see...there was the keypad for the code to get into the safe...




...yes...I am still kicking myself for giving that gun safe away...of ALL of the gun stuff...THAT is the 1 piece I regret not having...it was PURELY BADA$$!!!

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...anyway...back to the confession...and to end this Writing...




I admit...I did wish for his death to come to him before my eyes...and damn it...I got what I wished for...and all of the consequences that followed...as there were some good consequences as to some indifferent consequences as well as some bad consequences...I have hoped for more of the positive and good into the great aspects for my betterment as to such factors...though I have not really been capable to see as to such aspects as to how I view the aspects as to the world...as I could not understand as to the occurrences I was dealing with without any assistance in the ways which were actually beneficial to me or my son or my daughter as to how much I continuously had to defend the three of us while the situations were as to how the situations were...



Few paid any attention to the timing as well as the realities as to the IG and the EO portions in conjunction to the CID, which I thought was enough for people who knew such aspects to figure out there was a massively huge situation as to those in reference to surviving the aspects of a TBI. For such lengths of time I was the only one who saw the importance of until one day I found out about the Warrior Transition Unit which once was Medical Hold Unit, and I saw a beacon of hope as to others not having to go through what I went through.



I began hoping more and more from such a sight, though the saying as to it is better when I am in a good mood than a bad mood as in such references it is best when I am in a great mood in any other such comparisons as to what was noticed, when I was younger as a child and teenager as to the ways which such aspects tend to go as to the dependent aspects as to my mood in a multitude of situations. I learned as I saw the ways which when I am in a consistent good mood as to the differences in multitudes thereof, though that requires the truth as well as the 10 Commandments. Few people believed me, at this point it is what it is though I am fairly certain I may have proven such inadvertently in the comparisons to having had to explain the situations over and over again.



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The ways of such situations as to how the aspects as to "The Modern Day Book (Written) By: Reverend Susan MeeLing" as to the situations of the times as explained in "Finding A Silver Lining (Written) By: (Reverend) Susan MeeLing", however the situations thereof are the situations thereof. I do hope still, though it is what it is as to such factors.





Remember, since I was either six or seven years old I have been giving warnings as to the best of my ability as to the visions I had which began when I was in second grade of Elementary school.  The first warning I gave officially as to my nightmare vision compared to my dream vision was in the year of 1988 or 1989, compared to the online writings and my books as well as my journal blog entries year timeline for the information.


If anyone is upset please direct your upset towards those who had made the choices to constantly needlessly block my warnings and/or try to explain otherwise as to their trying to curb their responsibilities, in comparison to the responsible and respectful choices as best as I could possibly do so as a child starting as to such information at the age of when I was six in 1988 or seven years old in 1989.


I made every attempt to inform as best as I possibly could, though hopefully the clarifications throughout my various books and writings as well as journal blog entries compared to the amount of people in multiple areas which I had spoken with about in person from the years of 1988 or 1989 through to 2012 more continuously before 2013. 


In the year of 2019 is when I began reviewing such details and onward through the years since 2019 more officially, however I made the attempts to give the warnings and what others' choices have been as to whatever proof thereof to who you should be speaking with as to what they told you in comparison as to the upset and anger with in comparison.


How many assistances I have made attempt towards betterment as to the clarifications from the year of 1988 or 1989 onward did it truly have to take for each to genuinely pay attention, as I have been making the best attempts to assist for the best possibilities how?

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After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.

 

 

When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.

 

If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.

 

You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 

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Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.

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Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

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Do make sure to link my journal blog entry articles to yours if you refer to my works for any of your research in the slightest, for proper credit. 

 

Thank you, in advance.

REMEMBER:

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After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.

 

 

When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.

 

If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.

 

You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 

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Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.

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Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

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Do make sure to link my journal blog entry articles to yours if you refer to my works for any of your research in the slightest, for proper credit. 

 

Thank you, in advance.

Model Author Susan MeeLing

It should not take a head injury to figure this out because I thought you are supposed, to be smarter.

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If there are those who find such interesting enough to research further to bring forward more information in reference to the forefront for more detailed information, as usual I request the courtesy of the same which I do in reference to how I refer to articles for reference points when writing my journal blog entries; for each one used for reference starting points, to research for clearer understanding from such knowledge.

 

That is common sense, good etiquette, and good karma; whilst lifting others upward, in positive ways.

Quotes which mean a lot to me:

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"The ultimate measure of an individual is not where they stand in moments of comfort and convenience, but where they stand at the time of challenge and controversy."

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"We must reject the idea that every time a law is broken society is guilty, rather than the law breaker.  Freedom is never-more than one generation away, from extinction.  We do not pass freedom on through our blood stream because freedom must be fought for, protected, and handed on for the next generation to do the same."

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"Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.  Though best to be able to share in person with who matters, until that time occurs being able to see what is possible through such is a feat to notice.  One must be happy within oneself prior to being happy with another, though such can be enjoyed if living in one's own truth is as such. and then as to the capability to progress forward with another and/or others depending upon the situation(s) and individual(s)."  ~  A Quote From Me, Reverend Susan MeeLing also known as Lady Dori Belle

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