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It should not take a head injury
*after personally sustaining a head injury & coma*
to figure this out...

 
 
 
 
 
 


After a Drill Sergeant threw Me into the metal part of the bunk when I was in Basic Training for the United States of America's Army branch at Fort Sill Oklahoma #FortSill #FortSillOK #FortSillOklahoma #OK #Oklahoma in the year of 2000 on Psalm Sunday, I have dealt with the situations as best as I have been capable to do so while taking care of the situations and asking for assistance as per the required explanations of the information to such facts first.  While making the attempts to get assistance for the aspects thereof as to the reality, the aspects of where and when as to the multiple attempts to ask for assistance for me.  As my journal blog for when I was ready to bring such as to my other works forward since as to the lengths of time as to where my modeling was as to the modeling page information, just as the other pages have the information as to such specifics, and just as this journal blog of mine is as to such facts.


If I had real friends (if as to having met in person face to face in person in real life as to the aspects of this particular reference such as from the state of Texas as to the state of Washington as to the years of 2000 through 2013 if I met within the state of Texas for such references), real (the areas of the tristate region as before the year of 2000) family, and real relationships in real life that recognized me as to the aspects of if as to the face to face in person who started in truth as I had started such in truth as to the after effects from my Psalm Sunday 2000 head injury, as well as the subarachnoid hemorrhage in the frontal lobe of my brain that took 8.5 years to dissipate; then I guesstimate there would be the easier factors as to being capable for me to speak with others in truth in person face to face in person and/or through online measures as to such factors I suppose.  Though would such as to the knowledge of the ways as to how they began such discussions with me as to would there be such a situation, for them to consider as to such if factors as to such discussions with me in truth?


As to some suggestions and commentary within "Finding A Silver Lining" one of several of my bo0ks I personally authored/wrote/compiled as I can only speak and write in truth as per such clarifications as to the reality as to the specifics of such discussions/writings/videos as per my Official You Tube where I have satirical commentary where I comment about the factors as to having dealt with others' opinions about their pop culture references of #NJ #NJstate #NewJersey #NewJerseystate New Jersey, though as to for the most part I have actually preferred to be asked with politeness if as to having read my books and/or seen my website as just the same in reference to the timeframes when I was modeling as to having respect as to what I consider as respect, referencing if as to such polite manners as to discussions if as to such having been noticed because of the factors in my opinion as to having real discussions as communication would be if my website was seen before the year of 2023 as I first began my website in 2015; as in my journal blog posts as to the reality of the years of 2010 through 2013, as to the aspects of introductions as to those timeframes when as to various factors as I did not take selfies as I was actually working with photographers as to my creations of my outfits as per the description on the link to my modeling page(s) as to the references regarding my journal blog updates in the years of 2019 through 2022 as the timeframe onward as to the year of 2023 as to the factors as to how such journal blog entries will be as to such factors as to the aspects of the various topic points.


Go read through the multiple journal blogs on my website after finishing scrolling to get to the journal blog area, now!

Share the links of my journal blog, too!




 I was born and raised in New Jersey and grew up going throughout the tristate northeast areas mainly, and as to how the reality of when the importance of the situations as to the aspects of reviewing as to such facts regarding the logistics for several factors as to the considerations; the years of 2019 through 2022 as to the review process as to the aspects of the timeframe, prior to the timeframe of the 20 year memorial of 11 September 2001 also known as 9/11 as well as before the 30 year memorial of February 1993, as to the northeast areas mostly known as to New York City #NYC #NewYork #NY #NYstate #NYU though also as to the #Pentagon Pentagon, as well as Pennsylvania #Pennstate #Pennsylvaniastate as to the reality of how many New Jersey-ians commute in either direction, depending upon what location for the commute. 


The factors though I have said at times, I re-re-re-re-re-re-grew up in the state of  #Texas #TX #Texasstate Texas as to such factors as to the timeframes, as well as all 26 of my SCUBA #SCUBA #SCUBADiving  Diving certifications I earned were through one school within the state of Texas as I also earned winning first place in a Texas Chili cookoff with more than 20 entries as well as my chili recipe as I am adamant about my recipes as to such aspects just as I am specific as to what it actually takes for me to cook in a BBQ as to the required preparations for when I have BBQed.   



I can sarcastically write, those who know of the Rules of the BBQ as to where I grew up as to the Rules of the BBQ as to such factors to the considerations of such preparations.  However that is to cooking food as to the differences of my journal blog entries, as to the factors as to proverbial aspects of food for thought as the difference of real food in real life as to the facts of the situations to such attention to the details as well as attention to the information.


Such facts as to the metaphors in some of such factors that only after reviewing such information as to the aspects of the fiction book series that were as to for My personal life as to such dreamland sorts of factors as to the differences of such hypotheticals, the references thereof as to such regards as to the logistical emotional with the real situations as per the names I was informed of at the timeframes referenced review as to My journal blog as to the situations overall.  


If as to my journal blog being found and read as to where what I consider as common sense, as to the aspects of my satirical saying   how it should not take a head injury to figure out. 
 

*(sometimes utilizing articles discussing facts)*
By:  (Reverend) Susan MeeLing
also known as

The One & Only


(YouTube)   Lady Dori Belle


 

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REMEMBER:

After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.

 

 

When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.

 

If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.

 

You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 

Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.

Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

Do make sure to link my journal blog entry articles to yours if you refer to my works for any of your research in the slightest, for proper credit. 

 

Thank you, in advance.

REMEMBER:

After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.

 

 

When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.

 

If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.

 

You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 

Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.

Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

Do make sure to link my journal blog entry articles to yours if you refer to my works for any of your research in the slightest, for proper credit. 

 

Thank you, in advance.

Remember, since I was either six or seven years old I have been giving warnings as to the best of my ability as to the visions I had which began when I was in second grade of Elementary school.  The first warning I gave officially as to my nightmare vision compared to my dream vision was in the year of 1988 or 1989, compared to the online writings and my books as well as my journal blog entries year timeline for the information.


If anyone is upset please direct your upset towards those who had made the choices to constantly needlessly block my warnings and/or try to explain otherwise as to their trying to curb their responsibilities, in comparison to the responsible and respectful choices as best as I could possibly do so as a child starting as to such information at the age of when I was six in 1988 or seven years old in 1989.


I made every attempt to inform as best as I possibly could, though hopefully the clarifications throughout my various books and writings as well as journal blog entries compared to the amount of people in multiple areas which I had spoken with about in person from the years of 1988 or 1989 through to 2012 more continuously before 2013. 


In the year of 2019 is when I began reviewing such details and onward through the years since 2019 more officially, however I made the attempts to give the warnings and what others' choices have been as to whatever proof thereof to who you should be speaking with as to what they told you in comparison as to the upset and anger with in comparison.


How many assistances I have made attempt towards betterment as to the clarifications from the year of 1988 or 1989 onward did it truly have to take for each to genuinely pay attention, as I have been making the best attempts to assist for the best possibilities how?

Combining Original Accounts for Clarification: #74 of 88

In reference of combining all of my journals I wrote through my original #fetlife account which I will post the link at the bottom for the clarifications thereof, I am going to have the transparency brought forward as to what can be seen from the original posting dates as to the current timeframe of this day 28 November 2021 for those to see as to my original #Facebook accounts of Susan MeeLing as well as Lady Dori Belle for the additional ability to see the connection links as to what I had discussed for many years and decades in person as well as online as to such factors as best as I could as to the circumstances. Possibly such details will assist to make sense, in the comparisons thereof as to the amounts of details though in addition I do not pretend or hide myself from my truth which others should realize it is important to be honest and truthful in many more ways than just in one or two moments as it is imperative to be more capable to recognize the truth in such aspects of life for far more than some might have realized despite all of my warnings as to what I knew to bring forward to assist as best as possible.




I will begin with posting my newer updated journals from my original account and work backwards as to the irony I noticed. There will be plenty to read in the ways of, whether or not you choose to venture into the areas of the website fetlife.



Posted on 7 November 2011



A/D Mentorship Programs - Understanding Diversity




A little back story...and I am going to jump around...so you're going to have to keep up...


Early in 2010, I was living in Dallas/Fort Worth and I ended up, some how contacting Lily Ma'am in Austin about the Dallas Mentor's Program...very much so accidentally...as She is the Austin Mentor's Program Administrator...little did I know...She forwarded me to Mr. Jeep, the Administrator for the Dallas Mentor's Program...and He put me on the list for the Dallas Mentor's Program...then...I moved to Austin later in the year due to my daughter's medical condition...so I was transferred to the list for the Austin Mentor's Program...the irony of it all...


So, January 2011, I went to the introduction to the Austin Mentor's Program and I was introduced to Ms. Cenna, Lily Ma'am, and the rest of the Austin Mentor's Program Mentors. To say I was taken back would be putting it mildly. The energy that I felt off of these people...these Mistresses and Masters...it was amazing...I knew that They knew what They were doing...I knew I was going to learn, experience, and grow...and I have...so very much... I did not know that from the first weekend how much I would take away from this Program, but looking back at that first day...I realize...I was unprepared for everything that I was about to go through, and though I have yet to graduate...I am grateful that I have made it this far.


About halfway through the year; I had to move back to Dallas/Fort Worth, as my daughter was transferred into a hospital in Arkansas. Why didn't I move to Arkansas when I made the move to Austin for her? There were many factors that I am not going to disclose, but I am going to disclose this, before you judge me for my choice. My son was a major factor in the decision process as he was tired of moving around as I had moved to DFW from San Antonio in 2008 just after the kids' father passed away so they could be closer to their father's side of the family, even though he and I were in the process of a divorce because I wanted the kids to get to know their father and not miss out on learning about him. However, my son was tired of the moves and he knew my daughter would get out at some point and we would move back to DFW, so instead of making 2 moves, he only wanted to make 1 and travel the 6 hours bi-weekly. Not that I should have to explain myself to anyone, but since some people think I am selfish and moved to Dallas/Fort Worth just to go to kink events...I figured I would finally clear the air...ANYWAYS...


So, I moved back to DFW and I was lucky enough to have the ability to transfer into the Dallas Mentor's Program from the Austin Mentor's Program. I was and still am THRILLED and I feel absolutely blessed that this was made possible! I was willing to re-do the Program if I had to, but I am soooooo grateful that I was able to pick up and move along from where I left off from Austin in Dallas! All of my Mentors from Austin through Dallas have been wonderful and I have learned and gained so much information...I cannot even begin to explain...and the Classes...and the Intensives...the Boot Camps...everything...it has been AMAZING...all of it has been wonderful! Every single experience that I have had has been astounding and almost too much for words. I have so much written down in my notebook...and I know I will revisit it time and time again...maybe not right away...but every now and then, definitely... So many notes on so many topics...


However, today...today was different...different in so many ways...why? Because it was the last Intensive Class? Because it was taught by the infamous Lillith Grey (-almost PhD-just as an FYI-)? Because of the subject matter? Because I took more notes in this Class than any other? All the above and more...


UNDERSTANDING DIVERSITY


In order to understand the following fully, one will have to take Lillith Grey's class on Understanding Diversity...these are just my notes...and afterwards...


As humans, we need to honor resistance by acknowledging the issues we have with whatever bothers us, possibly analyze why they bother us (at a later time), but at that time, let them be

^ (I have not done this as often as I should have, though I have done this at times. When I have, it was beneficial, though expressing my feelings to some, caused outrage in itself...one must be careful still when confronting one's feelings upon the subject at hand for even though one is analyzing one's feelings and deep emotions, there are still other's feelings and emotions at play at the same time)

triality - looking at things from a 3rd plane - a 3rd perspective - to look at the whole

Variables/Differences: race, life experiences, size, employment, culture (way raised), being raised by mom and/or dad, sex, gender, politics, sexual orientation/preference, physical ability'looks, religion, class, age, education, military, etc

schema - frame of how we understand the world around us by how we were raised and brought into the world from when we were infants, how we take in information as fact

inner-sectionality: diversity is not separate as other diversities meet together to form a whole - ie Chinese woman with disability

privileges are both earned and unearned

^ earned privilege: graduating college

^ unearned privilege: being born into upper class

myth of meritocracy: everyone is born equal

everyone is a victim, but everyone has privileges, own both

most oblivious to privileges

What does it mean to be a good person: kind, honest, do not seek to harm without consent, tries for good, giving, trustworthy, fair, positive attitude, consistent, act like a human

each individual experience is valid

power requires a source over and will strive to keep it's power over for good or ill if not kept in check

males have privileges over females and visa versa, depending on field

^ males: jobs

^ females: custody of children

no escaping receiving messages/advertisements

*discrimination - denying access based upon any variable/difference that does not allow access to resource


numerical majority does not mean power

developing identity is through: experience, thoughts, group involvement, introspection, change, interaction, trying things

sex = biological

gender = social

inter-sex = ambiguous sex = 5 births per day

can be masculine while being a female and not lesbian

can be feminine while being a male and not gay

can be either and be adroginous

sex does NOT describe orientation

fem is the correct definition, lipstick lesbian created by male

transgender = gender and presentation do not match

cis-gender - sex and gender match

trans-sexual - surgical/hormonal transformation

transvestite = cross dresser that does not identify as either gender unless in role

sex, gender, and orientation = 3 separate things

Body Mass Index = height, weight, and gender = not scientific and does not include ethicity

weight is not significant of health ie heart problems and health problems...it is what one eats/sedentary life style/etc

size is not indicator of health

all information by the government is not scientific

what one feeds self determines health

accept size and size privileges

In kink, what variables of diversities are privileged?

^ Male Dominants

^ female submissives/bottoms

How does privilege access make more kink availability?

^ Male Top: more acceptance/play/thought to be more knowledgeable in skill

^ female bottoms: more play

How does privilege provide kink more easily?

^ Money makes it easier for education/community/events/toys

Safe space?

^ Places like ClubFEM, Wick'D, All gay, subHaven, same interest groups, sub cultures within a sub culture

^ home within a group, so long as not separated from reality all the time, then becomes segregation

Self-correction when making a mistake is ok...everyone messes up sometime

It is ok for each group to have their own space

Be open minded and willing to change views

THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE SAYING

RECOGNIZE WE ARE ALL PRODUCTS OF OUR ENVIRONMENTS/EXPERIENCES/NATURE/NURTURE/EGO

WE ALL HAVE THE BASIC HUMAN NEEDS AND NEEDS OF HAPPINESS

AVOID BELITTLING BEHAVIOR

IF YOU CHANGE...ASK FOR FEEDBACK

DON'T BE AFRAID TO SELF-CORRECT - LEAD BY EXAMPLE - SHOW THAT NO ONE IS PERFECT

AVOID "US" AND "THEM" LANGUAGE

CELEBRATE ALL GROUPS, EVEN ONES YOU DO NOT BELONG TO - CELEBRATE DIFFERENCES

ACKNOWLEDGE DISCRIMINATION

CHALLENGE PRIVILEGE AND SET AN EXAMPLE TO OTHERS

Taking this last Intensive...no pun intended...was intense...


We did this walk...we were in 2 lines...Lillith Grey read different statements and asked us to take steps forward and backwards if they applied to us and at the end we were to see where each of us stood. We all started on the same level (even though in real life, we all know we do not) and it was interesting to see where everyone was at the end).


...sigh...it sucked though...to see it in my face...granted...I was not all the way in the back...but I damn sure was no where near the front...with only a very small group of people behind me...I felt so...so...ostracized...I always know it can be worse...and yes today it showed me it could be worse...though once again as I know...only by a little... And though as I always say, I always hope that no one suffers any worse or more pain as I hate to see others suffer...I was upset to see where I stood... So many questions where I had to take steps backward...so many things where I just was not as good as others...yes...I am blessed to be alive...yes...I am blessed to have what I have...yes...I am blessed to have what privileges that I do have...but apparently they are far and few between...I guess I should be happy for what I have... Do not get me wrong...I AM happy for what I have...I guess I am being self-ish when I say I wish I had more blessings... However, I do ever-so treasure the ones I have...


This Class...this Intensive...SO much information...SO much to process...


So, what did I learn? Sooo very much. More than I can write here. More than I can begin to say...though it ties into a phone conversation that I had with a very good friend of mine on Saturday that is just now processing...it made sense then...but it is REALLY making sense now...damn bricks...


Pain...struggle...heart ache...etc...it's all relative...no worse...no better...it's all valid...(not that before I was saying that it wasn't or demeaning it-I just looked at it differently)...yes, everyone struggles...everyone has pain...everyone has heartache...everyone hurts...everyone is a victim at one point or another...everyone is discriminated against at some point in time for some reason or another...


Just because someone from a college degree, white collar job, and born into money gets treated unfairly...it does not make it any different than when the lower class, no college degree, unemployed, low income, pierced person is discriminated against. Both are discriminated against. Both are denied access to resources. Both are treated unfairly because of whatever reason. However, discrimination is discrimination is discrimination, and it is unacceptable.


We all have garbage that we deal with, we all have drama, we all have pain, we all have suffering, we all have issues, we all are victims, we all are our own worst enemies, and we are all in our own ways...we just do not see outside out of what is within our view. We need to rise above our 2 dimensional world and see the big picture...everyone is going through the same thing, in their own way, for their own life time. We are NOT human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a human experience.


What one person can handle and deal with on a daily basis, living in the conditions, being reminded of day by day, constantly figuring out who they are and where they fit in the world; whereas they may become frustrated here and there - that person has learned to cope with it and move fluidly throughout life with it, with minor outbursts. Another person would look at them and say, "I'd go bat shit crazy." and then that person's life could be looked at and measured and another person could say the exact same thing, and the cycle could continue...or the opposite. Yes we can judge and say "I can do better than" or "I would do this" or "....", but unless one has the EXACT set of circumstances, the exact predispositions, the exact genetic traits, the exact everything...one cannot assume anything and must accept complete ignorance to the subject at hand. We can say "I have seen..." and that means "I accept..." or "I acknowledge..." or "I appreciate..." or any other myriad of things; but it does not mean "I am one with..." nor does it mean "I can speak for..."


In the end of the class, sifting through all of the information, the statistics, the labels of all of the groups/sexes/genders/races/classifications/people/etc/... it all boiled down to this...


We all are victims of circumstances of things that we do not choose in our life...we all are oppressed one way or another, by loved ones and/or outsiders...we all are TRYING to seek happiness, in whatever shape it is in our mind...we all have our own privileges and blessings - we just need to open our eyes to see them...we all are are unique and deserve our own unique experiences...we all just want to live and prosper...we all just want to be ourselves...and as I said before...


We are not humans having a spiritual experience...we are spiritual beings having a human experience...


If we keep that in mind as we go through this life as well as what Lillith Grey teaches in her Class, not only can life be so much easier; but those chips on our shoulders are likely to fall off.


Personally, I deal with discrimination on a daily basis, though I never really thought about other's being discriminated against who discriminate against me. Usually, the white, upper-middle class, frumpy, christian, over-done make-up females or uppity, holier-than-thou white males are the ones who judge me and have to make a comment...(and yes, there I did it) I never really thought about them being discriminated against as they discriminate against me. Though, I am sure it probably happens a lot less often as when they say something such as "Wow...you're mom actually let you out of the house with that hair???", or something to the sort...they do not know my story...I don't know theirs, and frankly...I don't care to know their story...and I am sure they do not care to become educated upon mine...so...it is what it is... I can either continue to get upset and rant and rave and possibly explain and/or yell at them for their ignorance, or I can just smile and go on about my daily business unless continuously pestered (which has happened). It all depends upon the situation.


However, the moral of the story is to learn to LIVE AND LET LIVE WHILE APPRECIATING DIFFERENCES.


Everyone in the lifestyle should take this class...and the Program? I DEFINITELY recommend the Austin/Dallas Mentors Program to anyone who is willing and able...you definitely get what you put into it, and much will be learned and experienced.


Brightest blessings.





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Kommentare


Remember, since I was either six or seven years old I have been giving warnings as to the best of my ability as to the visions I had which began when I was in second grade of Elementary school.  The first warning I gave officially as to my nightmare vision compared to my dream vision was in the year of 1988 or 1989, compared to the online writings and my books as well as my journal blog entries year timeline for the information.


If anyone is upset please direct your upset towards those who had made the choices to constantly needlessly block my warnings and/or try to explain otherwise as to their trying to curb their responsibilities, in comparison to the responsible and respectful choices as best as I could possibly do so as a child starting as to such information at the age of when I was six in 1988 or seven years old in 1989.


I made every attempt to inform as best as I possibly could, though hopefully the clarifications throughout my various books and writings as well as journal blog entries compared to the amount of people in multiple areas which I had spoken with about in person from the years of 1988 or 1989 through to 2012 more continuously before 2013. 


In the year of 2019 is when I began reviewing such details and onward through the years since 2019 more officially, however I made the attempts to give the warnings and what others' choices have been as to whatever proof thereof to who you should be speaking with as to what they told you in comparison as to the upset and anger with in comparison.


How many assistances I have made attempt towards betterment as to the clarifications from the year of 1988 or 1989 onward did it truly have to take for each to genuinely pay attention, as I have been making the best attempts to assist for the best possibilities how?

REMEMBER:

After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.

 

 

When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.

 

If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.

 

You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 

Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.

Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

Do make sure to link my journal blog entry articles to yours if you refer to my works for any of your research in the slightest, for proper credit. 

 

Thank you, in advance.

REMEMBER:

After the head injury caused a coma while I learned how to deal with the headaches, migraines, cognitive disorders, memory problems, and other medical conditions I went from College Algebra with Trigonometry & Calculus down to 2nd grade math.  Here is how logic works for someone like me::

~  It took awhile for the doctor's recommendation to use sticky notes, to help remember.

~  It took several months to realize sticky notes moved, let alone to remember to speak with the doctor.

~  After I finally remembered to ask the doctor about the note problem, notebooks were recommended.

~  When I could remember to pick up a notebook, it took a long time to learn similar to sticky notes, notebooks are not always where they were placed.

~  After I was able to organize the notebooks over several months I still had not learned notebooks are not always readily available, at the necessary time.

~  When I remembered to speak with the doctor about the notebook problem the doctor had few other suggestions, to assist memories better.

~  After several events and adding up sticky note and notebook location problems, I realized my skin goes everywhere I do.

~  Wanting my tattoos to only be for me and not for public consumption I started the ink on my legs, able to hide easier.

~  It would not be until many tattoos and several years later I would realize my memory problems were usually not as bad when wearing shorts, capri pants, or a skirt.

~  Between 3-5 years after my first tattoo I had the first tattoo completed on my arms, and my memory has slowly progressed towards an easier memory jolt.

 

 

When I say "it should not take a head injury to figure this out" it is partially in humor from personal experiences, towards understanding.

 

If I can laugh at my mistakes after recognizing and dealing with them, so can you.

 

You have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom I lack in order to put everything together to fix the problems seen with abilities I do not have. 

Utilize the information within the blog to find genuine repairs and instead of complaining of the "hurtful" commentary, prevent the issues from reoccurring.

Then again, it should not take a head injury to figure that one out.

Do make sure to link my journal blog entry articles to yours if you refer to my works for any of your research in the slightest, for proper credit. 

 

Thank you, in advance.

Model Author Susan MeeLing

It should not take a head injury to figure this out because I thought you are supposed, to be smarter.

If there are those who find such interesting enough to research further to bring forward more information in reference to the forefront for more detailed information, as usual I request the courtesy of the same which I do in reference to how I refer to articles for reference points when writing my journal blog entries; for each one used for reference starting points, to research for clearer understanding from such knowledge.

 

That is common sense, good etiquette, and good karma; whilst lifting others upward, in positive ways.

Quotes which mean a lot to me:

"The ultimate measure of an individual is not where they stand in moments of comfort and convenience, but where they stand at the time of challenge and controversy."

"We must reject the idea that every time a law is broken society is guilty, rather than the law breaker.  Freedom is never-more than one generation away, from extinction.  We do not pass freedom on through our blood stream because freedom must be fought for, protected, and handed on for the next generation to do the same."

"Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.  Though best to be able to share in person with who matters, until that time occurs being able to see what is possible through such is a feat to notice.  One must be happy within oneself prior to being happy with another, though such can be enjoyed if living in one's own truth is as such. and then as to the capability to progress forward with another and/or others depending upon the situation(s) and individual(s)."  ~  A Quote From Me, Reverend Susan MeeLing also known as Lady Dori Belle

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