After having moved to the area of #Carrolltopn #Texas from #SanAntonio and though I have written about the aspects in reference to the portions of the gift cards regarding #HomeDepot and #lowes before in reference to my ex-sister-in-law Susie Marie Nichols-Lopez who remarried after getting pregnant with twins, which was after already having given birth to her two eldest daughters and one son; the portions of which in reference to the aspects which to discuss in this particular journal blog entry, have do to with something else though give a back portion of.
Though there are many who have wrongly accused me of caring more about other aspects in comparison to what was going on in reference to and of the situations involving my son and my daughter, there are several aspects and situations which those who wrongly accused me had not ever known about. Not only because I did not speak or write of them, though also because such was not ever asked of me as to what situations beyond in such regards.
For example though I had paid for tickets to see #LisaLampanelli in one of her shows in the area, because of what was going on with my daughter; I did not attend the event I paid for, though I had given the tickets to my ex-sister-in-law Susie Marie Nichols-Lopez to go. She told me how much she enjoyed listening and seeing Lisa Lampanelli as well as was able to speak with her after the show of which admittedly I wished I could have gone and met her as well as listen to her as I enjoy her sense of humor; I was supposed to be given a t shirt from the event, as that was where I was supposed to be per the ticket I purchased. However it was more important to be at the hospital my daughter was in at the time, to attend a meeting session to check on her and make sure she was getting better. Though I dealt with the complaints of having to pay for parking, for the event. Though I did not know about having to pay for the parking, that probably could have been looked up prior to going to the location for the comedy show Lisa Lampanelli was at.
In a separate situation which I was informed of only after the artwork piece was commissioned by the artist after my ex-sister-in-law had contacted the artist who paints portraits of different soldiers who have passed away; I had been informed of her request to the artist shortly before the arrangement to go to #Arizona for the presentation. which I allowed her to take my #Sedona van to the event. Though my son James Michael attend the event, my daughter was in the hospital as the presentation was after what occurred in regards of the #FortWorthZoo; and I had only been informed of the presentation less than one month, prior to the group of my ex-in-laws going to Arizona.
I honestly think the only reason I was told about the event in reference to the painting had been for two purposes of which one was to be able to drive to Arizona using my van, and the other in reference to the complaint she had in reference to the artist refusing to paint her dead-brother/spiritual husband in the picture which had the dress blues uniform. Since the complaint had been due to the fact the artist told her of not feeling comfortable painting the dress blues and requested a different picture of her dead brother/spiritual husband, such was a second sign in reference to the information which the Chief Warrant Officer 3 had told my ex-in-laws in reference to the same picture which had been sent to the United States of America's Armed Forces for the poster for the initial memorial service; which the date was changed last minute, as I learned. Though reiterating the portions which my ex-in-laws knew from what they were told by the Chief Warrant Officer 3 about the aspects in regards of the valor which had been stolen and proven through the pictures, the choice for disbelief in my opinion were quite a bit far more than simple denial; as proven in reference to the portions regarding the artist painting.
I was informed later the artist who did such had lived in Carrollton Texas, though if I am accurate that individual had moved to the #Houston area from what I was recently told about. Nonetheless my ex-sister-in-law Susie Marie Nichols-Lopez in 2010 had contacted that individual to complete the painting of, which I had not been told of until less than one month before the time to travel out to the presentation ceremony. The complaints from my ex-sister-in-law did not give her the opportunity to pay attention to the fact I brought up in reference to the dress blues situation, as well as the fact I had not given her permission to contact the artist for such a commissioned piece of artwork; of which when I had asked if the portions regarding the Chief Warrant Officer 3 was discussed with the artist, and I was told it had not been talked about to the artist.
However while my son was able to attend the event in Arizona with his cousins Joseph Anthony Lopez, Marissa Marie Lopez, Brieanna Marie Lopez, as well as his aunt Susie Marie Nichols-Lopez, and my ex-mother-in-law Lydia Evongelina (?surname from the Dominican Republic?) Nichols as I had gone to the appointments to meet with my daughter Lidia Louise; though I am uncertain if my other ex-sister-in-law Mary Evongelina Nichols Osteen with her then husband David Osteen and her two daughters Sondra Marie Osteen and Ariel Marie Osteen had attended, nor is there the certainty if my ex-brother-in-law Tony Walker Nichols and his wife Gail (?middle and maiden last name as well as first marriage last name?) Nichols and her eldest son Robert, or her two daughter Amber and Tori had attended the ceremony of presentation.
I simply dealt with all of the complaints at the time such as the fact I did not let her use my GPS while using my van, being more concerned about my daughter and her well being in comparison to going to the ceremony, my being upset about the contact to the artist without my permission, and several other points along those lines. Though the falsely made promise to me of giving the items made by the artist to my son and to my daughter from the event, I was informed the only ones who were given such initially were my ex-mother-in-law and my ex-sister-in-law instead of as promised to my son and to my daughter. Up until the last time of speaking with my ex-in-laws, each stood by their choice to continue with their wrongful defrauding.
Though admittedly such is in my opinion though I guesstimate many can agree with such of the choices made by such individuals of, having and being wrong in regards to my ex-sisters-in-law.
I know without a doubt if my ex-father-in-law were alive at the time, he would have been absolutely disgusted by the choices made by them and the lies they told others; especially in reference to what he knew to be the truth, as he had been given the picture of everyone which also had the picture of his dead son in the dress blues uniform prior to the death of my dead-ex-husband. He had yelled at my dead-ex-husband for disgracing not only the the uniform but also him and his good name and the medals and ribbons he himself as well as those who he had served with had earned, though also yelled for disgracing the United States of America's Armed Forces as a whole. I might be a bit of the envy in reference to my ex-father-in-law for being sincerely apologized to for his apologies to me for just that one point among others though referring only to that point, though in specific for ever standing up for his now dead son in November of 2007 which obviously was before the death date.
My ex-father-in-law's words: "If I could kill him myself for such a disgrace, I would. I'm sorry you ever had to deal with that, you are and have always been far too good for him. I wish I knew then, what I know now."
As a quick side note Grandpa Nichols was happy when I told him of giving the firearms to his eldest son Tony Walker Nichols, and the reasons I had given him as to why.
Though after several more situations was it which I stopped speaking with my ex-in-laws in specific in reference to my ex-sisters-in-law because of the treatment my daughter and my son were receiving and in part of how I had been treated as well as knowing how they had treated Grandpa Nichols, there were certain aspects which did not make any sense to me in regards of Grandpa Nichols' death. Though he had fallen sick only after Grandma Nichols had gotten into a car collision and was hospitalized which had been after my ex-sisters-in-law had seen my house in Carrollton Texas, it is something which I had pondered silently to myself as to the possibility of certain regards in reference to how Grandpa Nichols had become so ill so quickly to the point of having to be in hospice though dying beforehand; and as I was denied being able to visit Grandpa Nichols in the hospital though not denied the ability to see Grandma Nichols in the hospital, such was a bit of a point which I have wondered quite a bit.
As my ex-sister-in-law Susie Marie Nichols-Lopez was the only one who was able to visit with Grandpa Nichols when he was at the house in #FortWorth before his hospitalization as well as the treatment he received when he was alive in combination with the refusal to allow me to visit with him, I also have thought about how Grandpa Nichols had been treated when he was in the #DallasVA hospital when in reference to Susie Marie Nichols-Lopez. Since she was his least favorite child of the four he had, such has been another cause for my wondering over the years. As my paternal biological Aunt Linda had my suspicions in reference to the death of my Great Grandfather as I had asked my biological father about in reference to Hemlock which he shook his head and said he knew nothing about, though was angered about the fact Linda had sold several items which were meant for the family; in a similar aspect in reference to my ex-sister-in-law Susie Marie Nichols-Lopez utilizing favors which were not earned by her, of certain similarities in regards of Grandpa Nichols.
Since the fail safe my Great Grandfather had been in multiple ways had been if I had not been at my Great Grandfather's funeral which I was not, then there would be certain signals sent outward to others for such a disgrace as he knew it would be because of my biological mother not allowing me to attend. If there was the ability for my biological sister to attend though not me to attend, then such other signals would be sent out; as I guesstimate such were as my Great Grandfather did not nor tolerated others to play games, in reference to important aspects in life. While my Great Grandmother randomly played a few games though I do not know what they are called though I know they had odd pieces I have not seen since my Great Grandparents were alive, she rarely had done so and was only with a small group of people when doing so. As my biological father did not know about what was buried in the flooring of the condo my Great Grandparents had and since the building they lived in was near the #WorldTradeCenter in #NewYorkCity, I guesstimate the portions of if my biological Aunt Linda had not known of were in the flooring and had sold the condo; then most likely such was fully destroyed when the attacks on 11 September 2001 occurred.
The block of jade was extremely expensive and the price was not understood by her at the time which she undersold extremely, though also because of such a failsafe set in place the aspects of which ensured my biological sister did not get what would have been nor did my biological parents simply because of my not attending the funeral for my Great Grandfather in person were denied. Though such meant a different type of happiness for my Great Grandmother and later at some point, myself as well.
One can make a joke in reference to the ocean, for such for me.
Spirituality and rituals thereof can be extremely much stronger than some might understand or have known for quite some time in reference to what my Great Grandparents were a part of as well as my maternal Grandmother in conjunction with my babysitter; and the types of such completed before in decades past before and when I was a child cannot be undone, nor transferred to another in any such ways.
However as in reference to my ex-sister-in-law Susie Marie Nichols-Lopez, I still wonder of such in the similar aspects to the time in reference to my apartment when I lived near USAA on the Boulevard; in reference to the aspects involving Grandpa Nichols, and how he had died. In reference to certain crimes, there is not a statue of limitations in regards of time.
Though I had also booked and mostly paid for a Disney cruise trip, because of the situations occurring in reference to my daughter; the complaints I received from my ex-sister-in-law for having to cancel the trip at the time, was an unnecessary additional annoyance. It would have been great to actually be able to go, though the timing was not available for such because of the occurrences.
Again, the well being of my son and my daughter were far greater than a trip; along with the other aspects which I needed to take care of properly, as best as I could.