In the year of 2005 when the situations at Lackland Air Force Base #MilitaryCityUSA #SATX #SanAntonio #SanAntonioTexas #SanAntonioTX #Texas #stateofTexas #Texasstate and my biological mother per the phone call to my biological father, the two of them decided not to speak with me after the point in time of those factors. It was not until 2008 that we began speaking again at the behest of an individual I knew at the time, who had wanted to meet more people from New Jersey as I clarified back then.
In the year of 2012 when my biological parents stopped speaking with me once again after a disagreement about me dating since they did not know I was dating someone at the time, the conjunction of the situations regarding my daughter's situation, and the combined factors of not wanting to discuss several factors; their choice to not speak with me for such times, were per their decision.
I had not ever closed the lines of communication with my biological parents before the year of 2013 when per the emotional factors of what occurred regarding my daughter in that year, per my independence because of what my biological mother had said in reference to the year of 2011 per the situations regarding CFBISD #CFBISD . I detailed such information in my first book "Finding A Silver Lining" per those factors.
In the year of 2018 I made attempts to reconnect with my biological parents thinking they could actually be proud of me for remembering since the factors of the after effects from my head injury on Psalm Sunday in that year back then of 2000 and actually finally being accepted for who I am, though in the year of 2019 when my biological father said to let it go per that discussion I had not known what I did wrong to such factors.
I reconnected with my biological maternal aunt and those who have said they knew how New Jersey #NewJersey #NJ #stateofNJ #StateofNewJersey #NewJerseystate #NJTP #GardenState #GST is thus understand why I clarify the difference between biological family per the difference of family #family , in turn the factors of a letter I sent per the time of the year of 2023. Thus in turn my attempts to reconnect with my biological family if individuals have not understood the situations regarding veterans #veteran and their family factors, it is not up to the veteran to constantly make attempts to reconnect with their family since it is a two way street.
I understand individuals who do not understand what a calling is per the Armed Forces of the United States of America #ArmedForces #ArmedForcesoftheUSA #USA is concerned per their own lives or if they are bitter because when they wanted to go to the Armed Forces of the United States of America whatever factors per the acceptance portions, though such is not the individual veteran's fault and that is something others need to accept the reality of to not blame the veteran for the times before from their own choices.
For example my biological parents belittled me for not graduating Basic Training and yet neither one had ever been a part of the Armed Forces of the United States of America, though each tried. My biological mother did not get the approval from her step father to join the Air Force as he would not make the recommendation for her to get into the Air Force, whereas my biological father had tuberculosis when he was a child and even though his numbers were called up in the timeframe of Vietnam the waiver was not available for him. My biological four year younger little sister had a hippy mentality of the Armed Forces of the United States of America when I made the recommendation for her college to be paid for regarding the fees, and scoffed at the idea of ever being involved when I brought it up in the year around 2007.
There was still their own bitterness regarding my invitation to Marine and Science Technology School with the Navy #MAST #Marine #Science #Technology #School #MarineScienceTechnologySchool #USANavy #USNavy #Navy #Army #USAArmy #USAA #USArmy #USN #USAN attachment in the year of 1996 and the factors of the specifics of not accepting my biological little sister because she was not of age at those times, though the other additional factors of those situations. Back then there was their lack of understanding why I would be wanted from the military perspective though it was not until later they would learn of what my role per the Army of the Armed Forces of the United States of America per my background and clearance checks, and the situations I was to be in charge of per the timeframes. Recently I discussed some of the factors about what my role was to be regarding such after having written journal blogs about such, and at the ripe age of 17 years old per such points in time of what my responsibilities were per such facets.
To be accepted as in charge of supply for supply in a laymen's terms sort of way because of the aptitude tests in the ASVAB #ASVAB and such factors thereof was a massive accomplishment, one that I am still thankful for the opportunity to have such an opportunity despite my TBI. Though I did not graduate Basic Training I still made it through Zero Week and 9 days of Basic Training, and I assisted in several ways in reference to the legal factors in multiple circumstances that I did not anticipate though were beneficial and are beneficial.
Per my biological parents lack of communication for the third time regarding the situations, I sent wishes of happy new years to my biological children and my biological maternal aunt among some others here and there.
This point in time reminds me of when I was in fifth grade recovering from Mono, Epstien Bar, Lymes Disease, Bronchitis, and the Flu all at the same time where my biological parents and my biological little sister complained that I was sick though had downplayed everything to others in the church and at my school. However similar sensations to that point in time of 1993 the situations when found out of how much I actually was dealing with became an uproar at the school against my biological four year younger little sister for not being a better sibling, and a rebellion at the church against my biological parents because they had downplayed the reality of the situation of how extreme the situation actually was. It became so well known that my biological family had propped themselves up while downplaying the situations that the neighborhood came together and sought for me to attend more churches, more involvement from synagogues and temples at the church I attended, and the larger amount of involvement from the school in my life because of the situations. It was only made aware to me shortly before I was moved from New Jersey to Illinois, because of how the situations were regarding the factors of my biological little sister and my biological parents.
Individuals who had smeared my name recanted their statements and placed such upon my biological parents and my biological little sister while also apologizing to me for what they did not know, though what they learned of the situations and they promised me they would never forget what I dealt with and what they had listened to from my biologicals and the difference from learning from me and also their own research into the situations. That occurred heavily in 1993 through 1994 and then sporadically from 1995 through 1998 regarding fifth grade mainly, though while other factors started coming out into the open per depending upon the situations per the points in time. Though at those times in those years there was where my biological little sister and I had similar looks and was difficult for individuals to distinguish between the two of us, until I had changed my hairstyle to something shorter that she refused to do with her hair because of dance. I was told of appreciation for the distinguishments at the time, since it made it easier for others per their discussions with me.
This new year I have plans towards betterment hopefully, and God willing. In this time of self-reflection, I consider the possibilities and the opportunities for me hopefully.